Is it nrml to feel deep sadness when the girl your afteris w/ her bf?

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Okay... So basically there's this girl i've been liking, or falling hard for, whichever... for like 2 months now... sadly, she has a boyfriend. I am respectful of this and would never do anything to interfere with their relationship... but when I see them together and they kiss or hug or whatever... I cannot bear it. It puts my into this state of sadness and jealousy that I cannot stand and I'm not sure if I'm over-reacting or if this is normal... help please.

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  • PoisonFlowers
    14 years ago

    It's normal and it sucks.
    I know that feeling. You want to feel happy for the person and to be respectful and everything, but inside, you're seething and it hurts and you feel terrible about these thoughts and feelings you have no control over.

    Don't worry, it'll pass. Just like all of these sorts of things, they get better with time.

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    • SteveVon
      14 years ago

      I think your wrong it is normal but he has to step away and let the relationship pan out for what it is, it was his fault for not making a move earlier, he will learn to not be so shy next time

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