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In 2006 infidelity hit home base. My wife at the time fell in love with a man on the internet. A man she never met in person. They were going to meet in Texas until I email him. He then stopped all communication with her. My wife blamed me for braking them up. My question is. Should I pro sue to find this man and seek revenge?
I know this post is hella old but my heart truly goes out to you! I was once married to someone who cheated on me with this stupid woman from his place of work. In those days I was working overnights at a radio station and while I was at work he was with her supposedly "having coffee." Coffee my ass! God only knows what they were doing. It's been a long time since I left him but I still hold a grudge against them both. Even still I always hate her more than I hate or could hate him. I feel like people judge me for not being forgiving but I want to see them reap what they've sown. The only reason I haven't sought any kind of revenge is my fear of Karmic repercussions and of course prosecution.
Revenge is sweet but sad too. march2013 My ex wanted to be friends and cor-dual after all that has happened. I told her
we were married 23 years right? She said yes. Then FUCK off. That was sweet.
the revenge should be on her. but consider the whole thing, would it be worthy after? You might get in a deep shit that you're not suppose to.
Good thing she did this now rather than 10 years later. some of your time in life spent worthlessly, but now you can start making it more meaningful. Revenge is fun, but not as rewarding as being that nice friendly positive person you've been.
Confucious once said "before you Take the path of revenge you must dig 2 graves first"
I can relate a similar situation happened with my ex. But him and the girl are together and finding out it's not so fun when real life responsibilities come into play... I knw it's hard and although it may feel good to get revenge you're already divorced and the guy is long gone, so just let it go, or get help to let it go... So unhealthy emotion (trust me I know). The one thing I don't understand is in your post you said "she blamed you for breaking THEM up"? Seriously that's horrible
Yes I divorced her. And yes he knew she was married. For my ex wife, she will be paying for it for the rest of her miserable life.
Well first off, I would hope you divorced her ass for technically cheating.
Secondly, did he know she had a husband?
Third, you should be taking revenge on her, not him.