Is it nornal to have the sex drive of a guy but be a girl?

I'm an 18 year old girl and I really enjoy/like sex. My problem is that even after my boyfriend and I have fooled around I want it again. I watch porn on a regular basis-and I like really 'guy' ish extreme porn. (I like double penetration, c*m shots, cream pies, oral, etc)I like masturbating to this porn too.
I have an oral fixation and I love giving my bf oral sex all the time to the point where he gets annoyed. I guess I just have a really high libido (Think Samantha's character in Sex and The City) but I don't know any other girl who has a crazy sex drive like me. I fantasize about it all the time and even fantasize about getting gang banged! (I know thats horrible) But if you saw me on the steet you'd think I was this regular sweet girl who is ultra feminine and would never do such lewd things. I hide this from everyone besides my boyfriend. Is this normal?
*Please leave MATURE responses and not anything like 'will you marry me'.

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  • Bad_girl19

    I have a super high sex drive and so do many of my friends, so it's normal sweetie. I organise sex parties and gangbangs, so you are invited if you are hot. So, question is: are you hot and where do you reside?

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  • KacyWatson

    Yes it's normal it's just called natural human behaviour what you're going through is called a masculine sex drive really uncommon for women it is perfectly normal. Enjoy sex and be safe :)

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  • geek10

    Obviously normal ;)

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  • pinkyloco25

    That's normal that you have that kind of sex drive. That doesn't mean that you have a guy sex drive, it just means that you have a little bit more testosterone (sex hormone) than most people or your average female. The biggest difference between male and female as far as sex goes are their exterior genitalia and the way they reproduce, other than that it's all the same. Levels of testosterone vary in every human being no matter what biological sex they are. With that being said, and this is totally from a guy perspective...

    I have sexual fantasies about girls which I have never done before and I know for a fact I probably never will. And part of the reason why I still have those fantasies is because once again I've never done them before. I believe that there is a very great level of excitement when you get your fantasies to come true but in the long run it's no longer a fantasy and you don't think about it that way. So if you are the perfect sexual fantasy for a guy (which seems like you are from what you described), and you let him explore all of you very fast the guy will get bored.

    Ill give you an example: you said that you give your boyfriend head until he gets annoyed. That's a bad thing, because nothing about a blowjob really excites him anymore since it happens so much. See, on the other hand, blowjobs is not something my wife gives me all the time so when it actually does happen (i wish it was more often than it is) it makes it very special and I masturbate thinking about it afterwards for days.

    In conclusion: it's ok to have this sort of drive but have a little self control and dont reveal all your cards right away even if you have a royal flush off of a flop.

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    • 53739

      That's actually a great answer full of insight.

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  • Luuc

    Hey, thankgod you wrote this I thought I was the only person too! I also have a really high sex drive and often masturbate 4 times a day. I also watch porn and enjoy things such as double penetration and gang bangs on the porn websites. I always seem to have sex on my mind and thought I was the only woman to feel like this as I don't know any other women who do such things. I all of a sudden become really horny and can't help but touch myself. You are not alone on this matter! Thanks for writing this, it's made me feel like I'm not the only person who feels like this.

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    • Ramit10

      I can help you out with that ;)

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  • dstar

    Yes, very normal. Not all males are as horny as they are made out to be, and not all females are not horny as made out to be.

    Everyone is different, and if you enjoy sex then its normal and you don't have to worry about it.

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  • Masterlock

    If I were the dude i would be overjoyed.I think this is absolutely normal and it goes backto the point that everyone is diferent . This may be somethingin your genes urging you to have kids...Or you could be really horny.

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  • You don't have the sex drive of a guy you just have your own, which seems pretty healthy if a bit strong. Nothing wrong there. Your boyfriend is clearly not satisfying you also.

    There is nothing wrong with a gang bang fantasy and there is nothing wrong with being gang banged. I'm a single professional woman with a steady boyfriend but I also enjoy being gang banged. It's just a really fun thing that I really enjoy.

    You need more sex and being with one guy is not enough for you. You have some decisions to make.

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    • hosa

      U know theres something very unrealistic about saying 'sex' and 'enjoy' in the same sentence. U enjoy tv, playing games, shopping, playing sports, interesting conversations. Putting sex with them is just not right.

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    • Bad_girl19

      Does the steady BF know you do the GBs - or is he there for your safety? Do you do this for just fun, or do you also escort (I escort, but I do this in my private life too) x

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  • Hay nothin wrong wit a gangbang. Not horrible . You say your boyfriend know? He's the one should be setting you up with other guys. If not find a boyfriend that will. You just need a bunch of different dicks to make u happy.

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