Is it nornal i don't know how to handle this

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There is this girl who i met a few months ago. We've hang out several times and even chat online. But recently i've noticed that she's kinda giving me "come and get me" signals. But currently i don't want to start anything with anyone. And quite unusually, i don't wanna just hook up then ghost her. Should i make an effort to explain it to her that i ain't interested or should i just leave it

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  • Fatandlost07
    6 years ago

    Explain then leave.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    So, what, you want to keep her in sitting in reserve just in case you decide at some point you want a girlfriend?

    Here's a novel idea: why don't you just tell her a version of what you wrote here?

    Who knows? If you tell her you prefer not being in a relationship at the moment and imply that you respect her enough that you don't want to do the wonderful hook-up and ghost procedure, she might conclude that you could possibly be a decent human being.

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