Is it norml for a pyscho to want a relationship

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Hello

I am a pyschopath, some may say sociopath but i like the pyscho better. I have no remorse, guilt or empathy. None zero. The suffering of other doesn't move me in the slightest, i never cry and never feel guilty about anything.

But, a common misconception is that people like me have no feelings. Thats not true. Granted they don't rule my life, nor do i feel things beyond basic, happy, sad. Mostly i feel nothing, just a level contentment.

I'm not violent, nor a murderer, nor a rapist or abusive or any of those sub-human things. I have constructed a perfect faux of a person. I can be whatever the situation calls for.

Recently a girl i know and i have become close. I'm beginning (in my capacity) to care for her and i want it to develop into a relationship. But i've learnt from previous experiences whilst i can change myself to be whatever the girl wants i'm not substantial enough. It always boils down to "what do you want me to do for you?" they ask that question and i have no answers. I mean sure sex is a good feeling, but i have no particular needs, desires or fanatsies. There is nothing i really want in return for my devotion except loyalty. This freaks most girls out though because most guys want something.

So my question would be is it normal for someone like me to want a relationship?

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Based on 36 votes (27 yes)
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  • loveme
    12 years ago

    Im sorry I couldnt read all of your story..couldnt get past the "I"s complete Narcissist

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  • regisphilbin
    8 years ago

    well this was unsettling to read.

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  • cocainecutie
    9 years ago

    yes it's normal it's just like anyone else wanting a relationship

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  • Mr-Time
    12 years ago

    Yeah, you never know who some really is, hope your bf enjoyed the story. I have started going out with the girl in question now. I told her the truth and she gets it. She gets me. I think we are going to work well together.

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    • opal-leaves
      12 years ago

      Wow that's great! Wish ya the best!!! :)

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  • opal-leaves
    12 years ago

    Awww yes it is super normal! Just make sure you come clean as soon as you can. You remind me sooo much of Dexter (good guy & good tv show)
    Communicate & let whoever know how you are in advance (or at least ease her into it)

    I wish you the best, I really do.

    S.

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    • Mr-Time
      12 years ago

      Thanks i started watching Dexter recently on the advice of a friend. I love it, he says things that i just get and that reasonate with me.

      I think i'm actually better than him at blending in. But its certainly interesting to see how others react in a similar situation.

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      • opal-leaves
        12 years ago

        Cool. Wow I told my bf your story because it really fascinates me. Lol. I never thought people like him really existed! Just opens my eyes to evrything you know? :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Yeah its normal im just like that but still want relationships.

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago

    Awwee....the grinch got a heart.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Ya sound like you come from Bentham....

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