Is it normally normal?

77% Normal
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I never go out drinking cause I just don't feel it's me, clubs and pubs scare me almost because I'm shy and don't like to be around loads of people lookig at me.
I also have bad anxiety which is why I'm giving it ago tomorrow.
I don't wanna drink loads, and I don't want to stay out into the early hours cause I have work early the next day. But I'm worried I'll be pressured or just feel lame. It's like I can't be confident with my own decisions, I'm just so worried and over thinking it all. I'm quiet and I'll only know one person, how am I going to get through it?

Is it normal not to enjoy this stuff ?

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77% Normal
Based on 13 votes (10 yes)
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  • noid
    8 years ago

    Welcome back

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  • FrizzyHaired
    7 years ago

    Completely normal! People have different personalities, and if you don't like going to clubs and drink (I wouldn't recommend it myself because that's when people get into trouble) then that's fine! People have different tastes, and Respect you for that.

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  • harukim
    8 years ago

    completely normal, do not give in to pressure to drink! good luck!

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Why is it all you young people think that clubs and bars are the only places there are to go out to in the evening?
    I've always had a lot of fun going out with friends to a bowling alley. I'm terrible, but so is every one else. Or a comedy club. Now there's a great place for a first date. The comedians do most of the talking, avoiding that first date awkwardness.
    Most Irish pubs have great entertainment and aren't horribly loud like a club. British pubs (even in the US) have great beer and darts, a fun way to blow off steam, by picturing someone you're upset with on the dart board.
    There are usually art shows and gallery openings that serve free wine and cheese. One of my favorite evenings out is a dinner theater. Some zoos and aquariums stay open one or two evenings a week.
    There are just so many things to do, and places to go out to in the evening that don't include too loud, lousy music, bumping elbows with kids who can't even figure out what a fucking belt is for.

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