Is it normal your wife to hate you

You both need marriage counseling.

There are so many reasons she might now want you to touch her - but.... if she doesnt want you to leave her but she doesent want you to touch her maybe she has become incredibly insecure about herself. OR maybe she doesnt respect you for some reason, or find you attractive - who the hell really knows, and she might even lie if you ask her so....
you need to ask yourself if your happy with this. You arent responsible for her feelings (unless you have done or said something horrible to her of course) but you have no control over them. Having said that if you want change you have to just make it happen - it seems simple, but she isnt happy - she has made that abundantly clear with her lack of affection AND she needs to take some sort of responsibility to communicate her problems with you if she wants change. Misery loves company.

Personally I would not want to be in a relationship that lacks communication and affection combined with a placed guilt for wanting things to be better. I have stopped intamacy with a partner because I didnt respect that person - but I have enough SELF RESPECT to leave that situation that makes me miserable. Sounds like she wants to be in a miserable relationship. Of course there is probably a lot more to this storey, but this is my response given the information provided.

You only live once....... dont be trapped with misery - its not fair to you or her. Sounds like she would be happier without you too - I mean lets face it ...... everyone likes sex.

Maybe, she doesn't love you or just hates to be intimate?

That's why people should never get married.at least not without a written contract by a lawyer beforehand.

Just get a divorce, simple.

big deal, everyone hates me.

Well let's be honest. She must hate you for a reason. Did you cheat? Do you suck in bed? Do you yell at her and treat her like crap all the time? Those are three good reasons that I would (and have in the past) stopped intimacy with a partner. Try a positive conversation with her, something like I love you and I know that you love me, but it seems like we have grown apart. It happens. Do you think that you would be happier if we split up? You don't seem happy and I care that we are both happy, life is too short blah blah blah... Whatever you do don't force her to be intimate. If she wanted that it would be happening so let it go. Like don't threaten her that you will cheat or divorce if she doesn't do anything intimate because that would be terrible.

Ever thought maybe you're a bad Husband???

If my husband was trying to justify adultery with a "chik" and didn't know about the words "I've" or "regret".... yeah I'd be disappointed in him too.

You need to propose marriage counseling and perhaps an english language class. This is very hard to read.

I'm just wondering what your relationship was like BEFORE you got married?

This sounds like an arranged marriage - or else there are things that you are not telling us.
Does she hate you coz she's over-worked slaving for you?
Is she ill?
Do you have children?

This is very strange in the early days of marriage.

Maybe she hates you because you're a bad speller.

There are women who have psychiatrics issues that avoid sex and they need therapy to overcome this situation for them Its like if sex kills romance and they dont understand why couples are supposed to have sexuel intercourses if u love ur wife u Should be patient and most of all go see a therapist

Maybe she shouldn't be your wife then, lol.