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Well every time I try to make friends with girls at work and try to hang out with them, they don't want too cuz I have a gf??? WTF kinda shit Is that??
Why do you feel the need to make friends with other chicks if you have a gf? They are being respectful of your gf and staying away as they should.
I have a question, why do you feel the need to be friends and hang out with other chicks? How about you try to get some guy friends?
So I can't have\hang out with other girls because I have a gf? That's kind of messed up :(. So how do I approach a girl that I wanna hang out with and be friends with, without making it seem like I'm coming on to them?
Either they just don't like you, or they feel like you're coming on to them despite having a gf and they don't like that.
What is your obsession with wanting to hang out with other girls in the first place. It makes you look like a scumbag, if you want to hang out with them, then you should make it look like a social thing and then invite them in groups so they are not thrown off by you
If you have a girlfriend, yes it's bad. Only because it will eventually make your gf not feel like she is your #1. Plus, it's better to not put yourself in a situation where some chick might get the wrong idea. Then you would be stuck between a rock & a hard place because your gf wouldn't be happy that this chick is after you and that other girl would end up hurt because you have no intentions for more than friends. It's just better to not have close female friends if you are in a relationship. Less drama = a happy relationship.
@serene8 I just like hanging out with other females as friends, is that so bad? I don't have many guy friends though.
Gf won't be there and I can't tell her because shed just flip out like she always does and I don't feel like dealing with that, everytime I wanna hang out with another girl as friends I have to hear her bitch at me for hours. My gf also works at the same place I do and we have most of the same friends at work so I don't see what the problem is...
Well, is your girlfriend gonna be there hanging with you guys? And if she's not, then are you planning on telling your gf that you're hanging out with other girls from your work? Is she alright with that?
If she knows and is fine with that, then maybe the girls from your work don't know where you stand. You have to explain to them that you don't want them to feel uncomfortable or anything like that, and that it's strictly on a friend level. And explain to them that your gf already knows, so it's not like there's any secrets.
The girl I'm trying to hang out with has a gf, she's a lesbian. Ill hang out with her gf and her if that's what it takes lol