Is it normal wife with another guy

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I have always had a fantasy of my wife with another guy. We have a great sex life and I'm the only man she's ever been with. Recently we decided to try it but within limits. She would be the only one being pleased orally. The man's only pleasure would be taking care of her. Everything went as planned and she did enjoy it. I must admit though it is something we would never do again. It has enhanced our sex life beyond belief and made me appreciate her more but I don't know if it was worth the pain I still feel.Before you go down this path you better think it all out. Sometimes the fantasy should be just that and nothing more.

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  • Legion
    8 years ago

    If you both are OK with it, I see no problem

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  • Petrovic
    12 years ago

    I met my wife about 3 yrs. ago. She was stripping. I used to go watch her. She was very strict and there was no nudity and no touching. However, I found myself feeling bad for the poor jerks who wanted to but couldn't touch her! I thought I was crazy. She quit stripping and started going to school f/t. Our sexual relationship has been wonderful. We are extremely attracted to each other and we are in love. However, our fantasies (my fantasies) are always verbalized to her and ALWAYS involve her fucking another man. I am very specific about what he is doing to her etc., and she has huge orgasms. However, we took it a bit further a couple of years ago and we made a profile for my wife and a young man actually came to our house and fucked my wife while I watched (and filmed). I absolutely LOVED watching her face as he grabbed her legs and jammed his cock in her and I was embarrassed and felt a huge amount of guilt over it and swore it off, for her benefit. She was religious prior to us meeting and the whole thing turned her on momentarily, but she felt like I was just "putting her out there." So, the urges are coming again and despite the promises NOT to mention another man while we are making love, it's failing miserably and I recently told her that I wanted to see it again. She resisted like before, but now when I talk about it while we are having sex, she begs to be fucked by other men while I watch, and we are considering renting a motel room and me watching her being seduced by a good looking man in a bar and I watch him touching her legs and fingering her pussy and then ultimately her inviting him to the motel room and telling him that her husband wants to watch them fuck and if he says ok, me filming them fucking eachother's lights out! We've agreed that we don't want her to fall in love, so she won't fuck
    the same guy twice. Am I normal? Is this a normal urge?
    Confused

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    • highonlove
      11 years ago

      I think there is nothing wrong with this fantasy. In fact it can enhance your relationship and cement your marriage.
      Let me tell you that once you get over the anxiety of jealousy - and you will over time - the experience will be absolutely fantastic. And if you are worried about ruining your relationship - don't. From my experience it will not only elevate the sensual/sexual side to a new level, but will make the relationship much stronger. This could be part due to the fact, that when you engage in such a fantasy, it will require building a very strong trust relationship between you and your wife/gf. This trust, in turn, will act like a glue in all other aspects of your life.

      In my case it contributed to a totally new level of sex life, made me a much more sensual person in bed and changed my relations to her outside of the bedroom. I say so many more nice words to her now, then before all of this started. BTW, we are together for 20 years now.

      My wife is a tall, slim, gorgeous beauty with dark long hair. She has first met another guy about 12 years ago, after many of my delicate suggestions. I had to leave on a work assignment to another city and was only coming home about twice per month. My suggestions and her loneliness probably played part in it, and she met the guy who was hitting on her for some time. They did it when I was away and she recorded it with a hidden cam. My emotions that first time were ranging from total jealousy to extreme erotic arousal. I felt happy one time and lonely/almost betrayed another. But it was like a drug. I liked it so much. Have never before experienced such sexual intensity and arousal.

      She did it several more times with this guy over a number of months. Then she stopped for a few years - work, kids, busy life. With my suggestions she went back to the lifestyle. Put adds on singles sites etc. She started meeting guys and the more it was happening the more my emotions were shifting away from jealousy to sensuality, arousal, love for her.

      We are a so much better couple now. We used to argue and be nasty to each other a lot more often before this started happening. Now, we barely argue ever. I am more relaxed and I feel that my love to her is on par or better than when me met for the first time.

      She is seeing a guy now, that will go through the whole night with her. Last time she had three orgasms during the night, and then they did it again twice in the morning. This guy is incredible. He is so nice and sensual to her and makes her go to new levels with sexual arousal. She brings these new levels back home, where it really makes a difference in our sex life.

      BTW, she recorded video only twice. She prefers to have privacy with a guy. Makes her more at ease and enjoy the whole thing way better. However, she agreed to use a little voice recorder if she can in a given situation. Let me tell you. The sound recordings are even better than the video. My mind is discovering the levels of sensuality and emotions I never new existed in me. Probably the imagination adds to it, since I don't see the video.
      She would not feel comfortable with a threesome or if I was watching life. I don't know if I would not feel awkward just siting there and watching. Instead, I prefer to let my imagination go loose when she is doing it and then listen to the recording afterwards.

      Best of luck to all of you.

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