Is it normal why do i love her??

i know what your talking about...
i am almost in the same position but i am the girl in the story and well its kinda the same thing, my guy told me he loved me. tho i havent seen him in 4.5 yrs and he moved to a different country. i love him too but i have a different liife without him, and well it is difficult to tell him that i dont think i can fit him in to my life cos' hes so far away. i do love him but i am worried that the distance is an issue.
to be honest i think u should give it ago with this girl.u are normal to still love her cos love doesnt fade and if u have thought about her after 3 yrs u are still normal, by doing something about it you are far braver than many guys, and hey if it works out with this girl great! you deserve a happy ending after 3 years of waiting. btw dont be worried that u never talked before we all change over time,so we can be come who we are.

This is normal and despite what BoredGuy thinks, virginity is irrelevant. You will probably love her for life even if you don't end up together.

okay um 1st of all- why not?? im in a long distance relationship and i still love him more everyday. 2nd of all, you dont need a reason to love smone. love at first sight i guess but maybe shes your soulmate. talk to her about it. good luckkk

i hear you man i've had a similar case before..sometimes you meet someone that stands out above all the others i don't know if you actually "love" them though, love is a strong word.

Very normal, I suffer from a similarish issue thats lasted for about 7 years now.

Same way with my ex bf but he already lived 2hours away when we met we dated for 7 amazing monthes we did try to make distance work but it wasnt easy we fell for each other and we both fell hard. We had a rough breakup an i still cry about it! Its been 8 monthes since the break up i am soo effin inlove with him i cant een stand myself. Everything i do reminds me of him. I love the convos we used to have and the ily more arguments(: but im still determined to fix this thing im plannin a trip to go visit him soon amd maybe we can work out(: i love him like crazy an it breaks my heart jut to think he could ever love anyone but me but at the same time i want him to be happy. With or without me!

Point is,... Dont give up but dont try so hard you hurt youreself. I tried to hard and im emotionally unstable now! So be stubborn but not too stubborn!

I<3U.SkS

why you love her is inexplicable. from my experience the one i like is always the person who i am wondering "why do i like this person?"
but it's possible she likes you too so brush on the topic maybe? but it may also be true that she just sees you as a friend or something however harsh that may be. if she doesn't like you you'll probably figure it out b/c she'll sort of avoid you but don't not ask b/c then you might miss out on some kind of amazing love.

You have built this person up so much in your head for such a long time without truly knowing her very well..would if she has anger issues or some type of psychological problem but u wouldnt know because u supposedly know her..just would if u become disapointed? whats the worst that can happen? being a girl I dont mean to sound rude but shes playing u if she keeps in contact with u for that long and nothing happended. Move on.

Yes it is normal for school age. Prepare your self for the worst. Be strong.

Of course it's normal, but perhaps there's a little 'love for the non-existant' going on here? It's possible you've started to create her as a slightly better/ nicer person than she is in reality. People always act differently over skype and MSN, and if you didn't really know her in person you wouldn't be able to tell. I once fell very deeply 'in love' for a guy, who later turned out not being the caring loving guy I imagined him to be. The important thing to remember is that despite how it feels right now, you WILL move on and start to like someone else instead. when that time comes, you have to be super ultra brave and talk to them, and flirt with them, and ask them out! =)

this has happened to me so many times. I had a crush on this girl for about 3 years, and i dont remember telling her :/ now that i think about i was such an imature little fag. Well, now i gotta live with that shit and im going to have to swallow my feelings for the rest of my life. The next time you like a girl, start talking to her and hanging out with her, and tell her how you feel. And i no tht sounds easy but its not. Compliment her every once in a while, then tell her how you feel. When your ready, but dont let time fly by.

If you guys communicate, even over Skype, then you probably know her a lot more than you realize.

LOVE FROM FIRST SIGHT.YOU JUST FEEL SHE IS THE ONE YOU NEED AND WHY TO ASK SUCH QUESTIONS?IF SHE LOVES YOU SHE WILL WAIT TILL YOU GET TO HER IF NOT THEN SHE DIDNT REALLY LOVE YOU

virgin?