Is it normal when you are ready to move people get weird

I have moved several times in my life, most of them were work related ( new job), almost always out-of-state. In many instances the people I knew or had been working with previously become distant, in some cases angry when I told them. Or they stop interacting with me all together. PeopleI had gotten along with for years, once they found out I was leaving, " cut me out" and became distant and a little weird!

Voting Results
88% Normal
Based on 50 votes (44 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 5 )
  • LoRe*

    They just don't want to help u out with the moving...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • gako

    Ya. They prObably hate to see you leave conatantly. Maybe juat staying at one place could help improve your social life.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • kamilion

    this has happened to me. i don't know why they do this.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 46horses

    They're trying to make it easier for themselves when you leave. It's a rejection coping strategy.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Lizbit

    It's normal but it still is a bit f-ed up. They're probably trying to make your departure easier on themselves.

    Comment Hidden ( show )