Is it normal when talking to women?

I'm a man. I understand that women communicate differently than men. When I'm with women, I communicate more like women do. As far as I know, I'm well-liked and I have a lot of good female friends.

When I'm with men, I communicate more like men do. I have good male friends too.

However, does communicating with women this way preclude me from a relationship with them, even though women complain their men don't communicate well enough?

Are women initially attracted to men who act mannish but want them to communicate on the same level as them in the long-term?

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78% Normal
Based on 59 votes (46 yes)
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  • i think its fun to switch it up, i was out the other night and a nice man said "you look beautiful" and i said "thanks, so do you" and i meant it

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  • chaosdragoon1

    That's the contradicting part of current day courting. Most women complain about how men act, yet this is what attracted her to him in first place.

    So to attract a typical women, you can't appear to her as a buddy. Or you'll get sent directly to the friends zone. No collecting the booty. No collecting a relationship. Lol.

    To sum it up. If you want their interest you cannot be their friend at first.

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  • MidnightKitten

    Nothing wrong with that, I had a friend who got along with all the girls also and I had liked him, so did my other friend but we never told him.. :/ I don't know why I didn't, I flirted with him and acted as if they were jokes but I never tried to let him know.

    So to answer your question, some of us like guys we can talk to and are in our friend zone! :)

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  • RoseIsabella

    I like your style.

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    • Someone had to! And I only had to wait two years. :P

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      • RoseIsabella

        Sweet. I am similar when I talk to guys and I call some of em Bro too. ;)

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        • Ha! I don't think I've ever been enough of a guy to call someone Bro. :P

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