Is it normal when my mom angers me i fantasise about beating her up

How do you feel about jail?

No, you probably shouldn't do that because one day you might snap and actually do it. That's not right.

Maybe not 'normal' as such, but I'm trying to think in a non-judgmental way about it, and I'm thinking that it's a kind of defence mechanism you have when you're feeling threatened by her shouting? Makes sense. And maybe you have a very active imagination. It doesn't make you a bad person and I'm sure you wouldn't actually do it. And I don't think you need to be told that if you did, you'd be seriously crossing a line. It may indicate some unresolved anger towards her, but that can be ironed out, it doesn't have to be long lasting in most cases.

I would like to know what your Mom says to make you so angry. If you are not doing your chores, failing in school, not following the rules then the only person to blame is yourself. Of course it is a thought but that would be as far as I would go. You can always move out!

I guess.... Well I fantasize about beating the shit out of my mom amd making her suffer so...

That is what anger is in fact...it gives us the energy to attack and defend...the question is why do you get so angry

Beat the shit out of the bitch.

I sure hope its normal

I get this feeling with my mother in law too

Yes. I love my mother with all my heart, but when she really pisses me off, yes, I fantasize about knocking her block off, especially when she starts in with her childish nonsense. As long as it doesn't escape into real-life, do whatever you want to in your head. Thoughts are thoughts until you do something with them.

I'm sure most people get those fantasies. Just don't act on them. Do everything within your power not to.

You have to be careful with thoughts like that.
In my country, there is recent news that broke of a daughter who had a fight with her mom about her boyfriend. After the fight the mom went out and the girlfriend conspired with her boyfriend to KILL the mother. When the mother returned, the girl apologised to her mother for fighting and while she was hugging her, the boyfriend came up from behind and strangled her to death. They are only 18 & 19 years old, and is currently held in one of our most hectic prisons, their lives ruined forever.
Please seek psychological help to help you with the anger issues you feel towards your mom ASAP.

I've always done that. I hate her, but I feel obliged to at least act like I love her.
Problem is that one day when I was drunk I actually attacked her! (she's alright though)
Be careful!

I imagine beating your mum up as well

Do you get a hard on when you fantasize about your Mother?