Is it normal when my bf asks me not to hang out with a guy alone

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Hi, I know many other people might have asked this question But I really need a specific answer because It is going to deal with my relationship status.
Me and my boyfriend are in relationship since 2 years. We started our relationship with a long distance itself So could not spend too much timw with each other. But since we have got into the relationship, my boyfriend has tried meeting me as many times as possible and with whichever it was.
The main story begins when I got into an IT job. I got really a best friend who is a guy.Now my boyfriend does not like me to spend time with him or any other guy alone.He is okay with me hanging out with my friends in a group.
He also doesn't like me talking to other guys late at night.He doesn't even like me going out with them on bike. Is this normal in this era or my boyfriend is thinking too much ??
I have never been close to any other guy than my bf or I have never even cheated him.Still he has this possessiveness and insecurity which eats me. Please advise me what should I do?

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  • sillygirl77
    7 years ago

    Your bf doesn't own you nor does he trust you!

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  • Shackleford96
    7 years ago

    I'm going to take the opposite side here from everyone else. I DO think his feelings are normal. Not getting to be very close to you, of course he wouldn't want you to be spending time alone with other guys. That's just common sense. It would probably be different if you guys got to see each other all the time.

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  • ........
    7 years ago

    Your relationship is unhealthy and your boyfriend is leach

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  • MR.mr
    7 years ago

    It's completely normal my parents used to have similar rules and I do to.

    It has nothing to do with insecurity its about common since. Even people who have never cheated in their life or never even considered cheating sometimes end up doing so and its usually because they spent a lot of time, usually alone with someone else.
    It's difficult to not develop feeling for someone you spend a lot of alone time with

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    It's abnormal. Your boyfriend is jealous, insecure, and trying to control you and your friendships. Basically, despite all the nonsense he says about not trusting the guy or whatever, he just doesn't trust you.

    1. You need to have a talk with him. In your own words, tell him that you feel that you're being controlled by him, and that he doesn't trust you and everything else you wrote here.

    2. If he makes excuses/justify his controlling behavior after you tried talking to him, then it might be time to break up.

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  • FORUMiadableFucker0
    7 years ago

    The real question is why are you going biking with other guys and lying to yourself?

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Hes insecure. If you can live with that its all good. If not... time for a serious conversation.

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