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It happens to the point that people on the street have asked me my gender. I myself somehow do not want to change it to look more "normal". It could be because I'm asexual, but most asexual people still have a male or female identity.
Is this normal?
But, you have to identify as something! What do you usually put down on applications and things like that? What gender do you feel you most relate to?
I don't identify with either.
On applications, if there is an "other" option I check that, and if there isn't I alternate between male and female.
Well, if that works for you...!!! Have you ever seen that movie, "It's Pat?" The title character's gender was hard to identify and by the looks of it....he/she didn't have a problem with not identifying with either. That's how I'm picturing you!
If that's the movie you mean, then you could not have been more wrong. I am not overweight, do not wear glasses, don't dress like the nerd of nerds, and definitely am not a comedian.
If you want a description of me, then think more like a younger Marilyn Manson, maybe the Mechanical Animals album cover character.
I don't think it's normal, but then again, I'm living in a country where most of the girls aspire to me tanned, blonde and "sexy" or some stupid shit like that.
You sound like me, I do the same thing...With forms I just leave the gender boxes unticked...I don't feel male or female
I'm androgynous. I have very female features, but I dress like most boys and men do because I feel more comfortable that way. I do wear skirts and such too sometimes, if I'm feeling especially feminine that day and decide to show of what little curves I have, but most of the time I wear men's boxers and jeans and a t-shirt. I sometimes think it would be easier to be male, but I wouldn't ever change my gender.
I got told I look this way aswell. I don't deny I have female features, but I'm sure I have male ones aswell.