Is it normal want 2 know if your ex bf has been out drinking?

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I know that under normal circumstances this would be considered psycho, but if you are already in a dark place and then after saving yourself and never wanting to have sex you have sex with first man you love and he dumps you, and your mom turns around and tells you after you thinking nothing of it until your mom tells you this "You know damn well that he is out partying with his friends and getting drunk." And upon hearing this worry for hours and the doubt builds and though you know you have no right you go to his house you do anyways, on your bike in a bad neighborhood around 2am just to see if his car is at his house. Is it normal under these circumstances?

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45% Normal
Based on 44 votes (20 yes)
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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    It sounds like you still have feelings. If you're together then it'd still be a little odd to be keeping tabs on him like that. But if you're not together (as it sounds), then he can get up to anything he wants. It's not your business any more.

    I'm wondering whether perhaps you want to know that he's not having fun, because you want him to be having a hard time getting over you (reinforcing how special you are). Either way, it's finished. Whatever is going through his head or what he's doing, it's time to move on.

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  • jesusdiedlol
    12 years ago

    Dappled <3

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  • Savmagic
    13 years ago

    Well was his car there?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    He's your ex, if he's having trouble with alcoholism it's not your problem anymore.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Okay I'm going to explain this simply.

    He is your EX. It doesn't matter if he was your first in sex. You guys are no longer dating therefore you shouldn't even be keeping in contact with him.

    Also, your mother isn't helping. You need to tell her to shut her trap about the whole situation as well. You need to move on and get over this guy because he will get a restraining order on you after awhile.

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