Is it normal trust issues where there shouldnt be?

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Im in a relationship with a person who i truly love and we have such a strong relationship that i really feel like i can trust her but she's very attractive and always attracts attention when we're out.

However I've been cheated on in the past when our relationship went long distance and it still plays on my mind. She's been honest about cheating on a person who abused her in a previous relationship.

Now our relationship has gone long distance too and its playing on my mind and i cant stop thinking about it. Is this normal, please help.

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Based on 30 votes (24 yes)
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  • deviantd
    13 years ago

    Its normal to feel this way under the circumstances, but don't let your fears and past experiences destroy your relationship.

    if this bothers you too much break up an find someone else. it will make things easier on both of you.

    or if you really love her and you think she really loves you give it a try. there are only tree options, everything will be fine, you break up and are without her or she cheats on you.

    what is worse not having her at all (aka breaking up) or the possibility of dealing with her cheating?

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  • Cookies&Cream
    13 years ago

    You should always tell her how you feel & try to maintain an honest relashionship so neither has to worry about cheating and what so ever.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      Thanks, I will were going to be back together again soon after 3 months apart so I guess telling her my feelings rather than bottling them up just to be open and honest would be a good way to handle it. Just wanted to make sure i didnt end up being overpowering and creepily clingy!

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      • Cookies&Cream
        13 years ago

        your welcome, hope everything turns out great :)

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