Is it normal too : kinda cheat?

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Ok well. I have a gf of almost 3 yrs now. Love her to death. first started out good all romantic and whatnot but. After a while everything faded. We have next to no sexual life. I Always made her well " go over" is what we call it. But never did me. and everytime I asked she would say no
Or put it off. and we tried sex but was no
Good. I eventually asked now and she said she doesn't like doing anything. Makes
Me feel unwanted and etc. I've explained that too her .

Well. I know she as a close best friend who's a girl. One day I busted her an her friend making out and stuff. I didn't be mean or anything. I left them too it. They Did sext a bit i think. I did some snooping. But later on with that same girl . We became good friends. And I eventually fell for her. I hate to admit it but I acted upon my feelings for her. We only kissed tho. I won't have sex with any other girl. Me and my gf are still currently dating and not aware of anything. now me and my gfs bestie are pretty much head or heels for eachother. We admitted
Love. I

I know what you guys are thinking . Like WTF is going on here! . Ya I agree lol. But I just been feeling so unwanted for way too long. And this girl really gets me. I explained this story too her too. it's like 2 relationships. I dunno what to do. Oh second one isn't completely sexual btw. But ya tell me what you think. Please no jerks or anything. Got a real dillemma on my hands.

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  • TheW1fey
    13 years ago

    I say for ur situation, yes it's normal. Once someone starts feeling unwanted or unappreciated, they seek it else where. If ur girlfriend isn't wanting to show you the attention you need and crave, then I would say break up with her to avoid anymore cheating episodes and move on. Maybe ur girlfriend has realized she into girls more than men. Either way, move on and find a more fulfilling relationship. Good luck!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Don't listen to them. They want you to all get drunk so they can have an excuse to have a three way! Trust me. Women are big as pigs as us men if not worse. Make a meal out of both and enjoy it. When you are ready to settle down, put it to them. If they don't want it, keep them around for fun until you find the right person! Eat them Up Yum!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Yeah, tough situation. Its your gf's best friend? God... Well, all i'll say is that you need to pick one or the other. Don't want to create ba habits. But yes, for your situation, very normal. But only if you choose one.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i would say its normal but why be in a relaionship that requires love when you dont love her i say dump her and let the chips fall where they may because is it your fault you dont have as much feelings for her anymore? no why would it be she made you feel unwanted so go and make yourself more wanted
    but be careful maybe the are both lezbians and her friend who kissed you is planning to make you cheat so that you and your gf split up keep your mind open about the situation do what you think is good for you because other people might be doing the oposite

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Check your own personal hygeine for one, and maybe ask your girlfriend if its an issue! Communicate i say! Then maybe if you are not to eager and greedy, you might end up with a 3 way relstionship. Maybe they both like men, but also like other women. Been there done that! Its pretty awsome! I still get together with the one i am with now, and an Ex of mine. They Love each other to death, and i dated one and married the other. Its Just sex, be careful and have fun !

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    • Funny555
      13 years ago

      Hygene is fine. I always shower and etc. We do communicate. But yeas I have told her that if Hungary don't get better between us I would have to go.

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  • THeroinCZ
    13 years ago

    Dont worry man...all of us guys (and some chicks too^^) have such experience, when we cant decide which one is better :) Ive gotta agree with what TheWifey said: Either way, move on and find a more fulfilling relationship. Good luck! (or be like me and hope for better future...just humping another girl temporarilly^^)

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