Is it normal to worry that my friend is trying to seduce my boyfriend?

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I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and we are totally in love. Recently I've been noticing my friend hanging around him more and flirting occasionally. She makes comments about his manly appearance and he has told me she had even told him lies about me. She seems to always be around us and know where he is all the time, and its worrying me. She isnt very pretty and he swears he's not interested but its freaking me out. Is this normal ?

yes, confront her 39
no, leave it 5
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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Yuck, there's nothing like a creepy inappropriate girl to ruin a friendship and sometimes a relationship. At least she is, as you say, not very pretty. However, it's not uncommon that the stereotypical unattractive person is willing to go the extra mile for the attention he or she desires.

    I can tell you from experience that the woman my first ex husband cheated on me with wasn't a looker. In my humble opinion the fact that she's telling lies about you to your boyfriend should be a dealbreaker for both him and yourself. I also think the both of you ought to present a united front and phase her out as a friend. I think it would be great if your boyfriend would be willing to block her number. I wouldn't necessarily be in a hurry to confront her but should you have to I would advice that the both of you tell her that ya'll need a break from her.
    Hopefully she will get the message.

    I certainly sympathize with you position and hope everything turns out for the best!

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    Simple, that aint no friend. Dump her.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      I bet I could overpower your strength you fragile sun flower.

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      • (s)aint
        10 years ago

        That depends, can I carry any weapon? I also fight REALLY dirty.

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  • JohnTrollinski
    10 years ago

    They're probably at it right now

    Your fault really.

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  • Rappergirl
    10 years ago

    This is very normal. See now, your so called "friend" thinks that he is to good for you. She is also very jealous of you. I suggest that you cut the rope between them

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    And you call this person a friend? Perhaps you should re-examine the meaning of the word friend.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Apparently studies show women find men in relationships more attractive...So, I'd watch out.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      This is so true. I noticed that if I am obviously out in public with a lady, girls that usually would not be into me stare me down like a starving person looks at a slowly cooking piece of meat. I wonder why this happens? It is like an animalistic instinct that cannot be overcome by the conscious mind.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Who knows. Maybe they assume it has something to do with "he has a partner, he must have something to offer", or maybe I am wrong.

        Regardless, it is still not so moral...

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          How many guys do this to you?

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          • Jayy
            10 years ago

            My sister says the reason why girls find men in relationships more attractive is because it feels like "he has absolutly no interest in "me" whatsoever" so they feel the need to make him notice them, its kinda like a challenge.

            Woman just want to be noticed, and the fact that a man in a relationship already has someone he noticed makes it more of a challenge.

            Mind my English, motherfuckers.

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            • [Old Memory]
              10 years ago

              That makes complete sense actually. Thank you for clarifying that mystery for me.

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  • preciiousv
    10 years ago

    shes not a real friend if she wants your bf and telling lies to try to break the two of you apart

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  • SHAKEStheClown
    10 years ago

    Put itching powder in her tampons.

    Cut her off like the human hemorrhoid she is and don't look back. Block her ass on social media media, block her calls and texts. Treat her ugly, conniving ass like she's dead to you.

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  • Junesong
    10 years ago

    She does not sound like a good friend to have, I must wonder why you keep her around? Real friends do not throw themselves at your boyfriend even if they do fancy him, they respect the fact that he is off limits and therefore hitting on him in this manner is unacceptable. You need to either confront her about this or stop being her friend, if she is trying to ruin your relationship she is clearly not a positive influence in your life.

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  • JayPr'zBaddest
    10 years ago

    Bitches are sneeky.

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  • Sog
    10 years ago

    She's tryin to get it!

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  • eastbeast
    10 years ago

    ffs take advantage and have a three-way.

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