Is it normal to worry about this?

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My boyfriend used to be gay, but he was unhappy with being that way, until me and him met and fell in love. He claims that he doesn't want to remember his 'gay' life and he knows for sure now that i'm what he wants. I really do love him, and I'm positive that he loves me too - but the fact that he's had sexual intercourse with a man before makes me sometimes doubt our future. I know I shouldn't be even considering this if I love him, but i'm just worrying that I have kids to him in the future and he decides to walk away years later when he realises that he's gay. Is it possible that he could be still gay or is there men out there that has experienced what my boyfriend experienced but then realised they were straight? is it normal to be worrying about this?

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Based on 37 votes (29 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Here we go again..... Maybe you should buy a nice mountie dildo and become the man in the relationship. He would probably enjoy it.

    Fuck you.

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    • Kittenna
      12 years ago

      Hey, you fucking moron? I have a suggestion. Why don't you go do something with your life you fucking pathetic little tit.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        hey everybody let me introduce to my queer husband, his name is Lance. Well he isnt queer anymore, but who knows maybe one day he will go back to his love of cock & balls. But dont worry he is a real man. He just took up the ass for a few years before he found me. And believe it or not he even gave me pointers on how to improve my cock sucking. Yup thats who I want to be the father of my children.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Give it about 4 years and then see how you feel about marrying him, then wait another 4 years before you decide to have kids.... you should know him by then.

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  • kellstar79
    12 years ago

    No one can change their sexuality just because they 'want' too. If he was gay then he still is. It is possible that he is straight and was just confused about his sexuality. If you love him then stop worrying, talk to him, tell him your feelings and fears and if he loves you then he will reassure you. Nothing's impossible though even if someone makes a promise, it can still be broken but I suggest you try and relax and enjoy eachother

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  • badmanalive
    12 years ago

    Jeeze, suck one dick, and your labeled for life.

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    • robbieforgotpw
      11 years ago

      Once a fudge packer always a packer of the fudge.

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  • Kittenna
    12 years ago

    He said he was confused. He had liked a few girls before he ended up with the guy. He was in a two month relationship with the guy, it was terrible and I had witnessed a lot of their arguments. But they had sex quite a lot of times. Since he's been with me most of his friends told me how happy i've made him and how different he is. Which makes me feel really good! But it's terrible worrying about this all the time. I try not to but it's difficult..

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    • plum6
      12 years ago

      I just hope for you two that he really means it, I don't think it's bad that he experimented before, it is better that he did it before instead of when he was already committed. As long as he is really sure about what he wants at this point; YOU

      I can imagine you are insecure and honestly, I would not want to be in your shoes and having to worry about him changing his mind again

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