Is it normal to worry a lot during a relationship?

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Me and my boyfriend have been together seven months. It's great, I love it! When he is with me he is always giving me cuddles, in-fact, when he comes to my house we don't even leave the bed because we're always cuddling. He says things to me like 'I could not imagine me with anyone else' 'I would hate it if i was not with you' 'I am so glad I'm with you, i love you' and he's always playing with my hair, tickling me and things. He's a really sweet boyfriend. We have bickered a few times though, it's horrible because I'm scared in case he'll go in a mood for nothing and never answer his phone and that he will never speak to me again.. I know that probably won't happen, but I really love him and I can't stand it when he's kind of in a mood. I can't help but worry.. but this worry has only came on since I have got the contraceptive implant put in. I know it messes with your emotions, can make you depressed and things like that.. so I'm wondering is it that?

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    You probably feel you've made some sort of commitment to him by getting the implant so now you're starting to worry about him leaving you.

    Chill out and leave him alone if he's in a mood. Make him feel lucky to have you, by being good fun and acting like a friend - not his mother or jailer.

    Good luck.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Yes even guys can get moody.
    From what he's telling you (verbally and in actions) I don't think you have anything to worry about with - him.

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  • Solophonic
    12 years ago

    He probably just gets moody and is smart enough to just stay silent for a little while so he doesn't say something hurtful that he doesn't mean.

    I'm the same way, when I'm pissed off, leave me alone to work through it or else you're going to get tangled up in it. A little bit later when I've had a chance to cool off and think evenly is a much better time to talk, because in most cases it's completely in the past within 30-60 minutes.

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