Is it normal to wonder why women have sex with "boys"?

Yet another female that thinks that what she wants a man to be is actually what a man should be.

It's something I dislike about women, they have sex with "boys", then expect them to suddenly turn in to a responsible man.

Why is it that if you don't raise someone elses child, then you aren't a man? Just another case of "be what I want you to be, do what I want you to do, or you aren't a real man".

What's ironicly funny is the "boys make excuses" part. "She's" making excuses for having a child with a boy instead of looking for a responsible "man". So "she's" making excuses for "her" failure to find a responsible man instead of finding a boy and expecting the boy to somehow turn in to a responsible man simply because she is in a relationship with him.

Men look for someone to take care of? Sorry, equality is a bitch. If you want equality, then it's not a bad thing to want to be taken care for by a partner, just like the woman would like to be taken care of by her man.

Men demand respect? Respect isn't given when demanded, it is earned when deserved, otherwise it isn't real respct.

A lot of women like to blame their bad decisions on the mistakes they make. Their whole "it's their fault" logic is pretty much the "I didn't shoot the person, the gun did" logic, which isn't really logic.

Ultimatly, it is "her" fault for looking for a boy, and then expect the boy to turn in to a man within a week. If she wants a man, she looks for a man, not a boy and expect him to suddenly turn responsible.

Tell this girl that ItDuz said she's a stupid "girl".

Men have class. Boys have swagger.

Good day gentlemen.

You know what, I'm really wondering why this post is only at 67%. I guess there are too many insecure women on this site; which makes more sense.

Women can be so naive! Yes i am a girl aswell but I am so sick of my friends coming to me after another "boy" has broken their hearts.

According to that logic that is as horribly flawed as the person that posted it, no. They are not men.

The reason why women work out such a theory is because they've been hurt before. Someone who doesn't sleep around with douchebags won't make long statements about how guys are jerks.

She made herself look stupid by a lame attempt at shaming the 'boy'. From the sound of it, she posted that so that this guy would see it, probably, not so much that it's her relationship criteria.

Very foolish to even sleep with someone who has such a track record! BUT...people always seem to think they will be the 'one' to change someone. People are always wanting to save someone, protect or help them or whatever, it's just something that almost everyone does to some extent. Also, people will put up with quite a lot once significantly invested in a relationship. People put up with abuse, drugs/drinking, not being able to hold a job, all sorts of things. It's just that hope that people have that firstly things will be different with ME, and when that doesn't pan out, that the person will magically change....happens to almost everyone to some degree I think....although some people are really, really stupid and never learn!!

Drunken mistakes & misjudging of character... That's why I do it anyway :/ but I'm working on it! (:

I really don't get it myself even though I've never been in a relationship. I've had boys want to be with me though and I told them no so they have tried to fool me into liking them, never happened. I'm not that stupid.

That post you found on facebook is retarded though. The part where it says men demand for respect really got me though, since when did men demand for it. I have to laugh at it, considering you can tell that she is a "girl". I can't stand girls like that. There are reasons why I deactivated my facebook. I was tired of seeing that same bullshit on mine.

I can not tell if you mean figuratively or literally. Sex with a boy is disgusting and wrong.

I know someone who is like...in her thirties...and she just loves guy in the early twenties... I think that it may have something to do with the fact that her mind is stuck in HER twenties...

They're pedophiles, I guess.

If she knew that the guy was a deadbeat when she had sex with him, then it's here own damn fault for getting involved with him =/

Well, your first mistake was getting on Facebook. Should've known better than to do that shit...

Secondly, I agree completely and WOW at ItDuz's comment!

If she was smart and a classy sassy woman, she'd have started using protection or found a man and not a boy as she claims.

It's her fault as well.

I think the issue isn't "boy" or "man" but... "girl"

You said he's fathered children on 4 women without providing any support for his kids. So one has to wonder how sane she was to think she'd be the special exception.

I wonder the same thing.