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****This poll is for men only**** My boyfriend get's annoyed with a vibrator being present during our sexy times. He says it makes him feel useless. I say he has his porn and I have a vibrator so we are even. What does everyone (men) think?
| Yes I feel bad and unmanly | 11 | |
| No it doesn't worry me at all | 19 | |
| I have not experienced a girl using it during sexy times | 3 | |
| What is vibrator? | 1 | |
| Other | 2 |
Quite the opposite. Sex toys can help you both have fun. Also means you can be attending to other things. It's like having a threesome but without your girlfriend then running off with the other man.
Same if you're apart for a bit. I don't mind whatever fun she has with Plastic Percy. It's Real Roger I'm bothered by.
Actually I feel as follows:
A: If I'm in relationship each of us should have private masturbation time, which in her case includes a vibrator if she wants one, and I support that.
B: If I am single and I am looking to date/get laid, if I knew that a particular woman used one (I mean I couldn't possibly know, but let's pretend for a moment that I could find out for sure) then I would suspect that there would be less chance to get laid as she doesn't need me to satisfy herself - i.e. I see her as having the upper hand so to speak.
No, it does not worry me at all and I love watching my girlfriend using sex toys. Maybe it is so because she can have orgasms with me (without toys) more easily than with toys and toys are only a bonus, so I do not get "jealous" of them. Probably the reactions of some (insecure) guys may depend on this: is she able to have orgasms with them without a toy? If yes, then they - even if they are insecure or something - might welcome the toys and the bonus brought by them into the sex play. But if the guy cannot bring you to orgasm, then he might feel different (a piece of plasic is better than he), and it is not the same with porn and his habits, I suppose that he can have orgasms with porn as well as with you without porn, not that porn is necessary for him to orgasm and if he does not watch porn when having sex with you, he will not orgasm. So there is probably a difference.
I want my girlfriend to get a vibrator (as her ex threw it away) so I can put it up her bum while we are having sex.
My ex boyfriend was all nervous about me getting a vibrator, but he was both an asshole and a complete mess.
I encourage my wife to use toys, the only problem with vibrators now are they are too vanilla, personally in like seeing inanimate/everyday objects, more of a turn on... for instance the empty wine bottle we just finished…
not at all sex with a vibrater in her bum and me in the other end feels great for all involved