Is it normal to wonder...

Is it normal to wonder what would you guys rather:

For your partner to have slept with a lot more people then you have before you two met?

Or

For your partner to have slept with someone a week before they met you, thus having been with someone more recently then you have.

This is in a context of a long term relationship, so you don't have to put in to context if they're going to use you or not.

Please answer with 1st or 2nd and your reasons if you like.

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Based on 80 votes (47 yes)
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  • Breeana

    I don't think it would matter to me as long as i'm what they want now

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  • A-Hor

    The first. The number is irrelevant to me. The only concern I would have is if he (I prefer men) had safe sex every time, and is STI free. I have a right to know as their partner. I'd be less concerned with someone that used to be a prostitute that always wore a condom and got checked every few months, than someone who had sex once in their lifetime, and did not use protection at all.

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