Is it normal to wonder...
Is it normal to wonder what would you guys rather:
For your partner to have slept with a lot more people then you have before you two met?
Or
For your partner to have slept with someone a week before they met you, thus having been with someone more recently then you have.
This is in a context of a long term relationship, so you don't have to put in to context if they're going to use you or not.
Please answer with 1st or 2nd and your reasons if you like.