Is it normal to wish to be a houseslave for somebody?

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Almost my hole life I've been looking for a strict couple to become their loyal servant doing all the housekeeping, serving breakfast, dinner, drinks and doing errands. Also driving, being a butler and help out in all ways. This is not for money, but because I want to belong to somebody and set other peoples wishes first. I want to serve somebody, even if they would like to humilate me or even punish me. I'm not into BDSM, just domestic servitude. Well, this can not be normal? Or?

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  • houseservant
    11 years ago

    Maybe it's not easy to understand, and I respect all of You who don't. But for me it feels like the right thing to do. So if there are any couples out there wanting this, feel free to contact me.

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  • joybird
    11 years ago

    Go and do it.

    Only make sure that you skivvy for cold hard cash.

    Advertise yourself as a cleaner / housekeeper.

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  • houseservant
    11 years ago

    No, perhaps its not normal at all... But I'm not looking for a partner, I'm looking for a couple who could like to own a servant like this... Even less normal, perhaps...

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    • Jweezee
      11 years ago

      No it's not normal to want to be a houseslave. But i'm positive that there are couples that would love to help you out.

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  • DeronKrow
    6 years ago

    BDSM doesn't always involve sex. Yes, there are sexual aspects, but dominance/ submission (DS) doesn't always involve that. 24/7 slavery is actually pretty popular with some of the community.

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  • lizieralizard
    11 years ago

    sure y not. my best friend and i once had a houseboy. he was to remain naked at all times and cook and clean. he did a great job. to this day i know him only as "boy".

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  • zenji
    11 years ago

    Sounds like you want some kind of sadomasochistic relationship. I think there must be a version of S&M out there, without the sex. Some people are very into being at the service of another, and some into having a servant. So you could make this happen. I suggest you try this lifestyle out for a while with someone who 'gets it.' You don't want to commit to something that you find out you're actually suited for.

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  • iamablksissy
    11 years ago

    I think once you find someone who shares that feeling (like me) that it can be considered normal. I fully understand the desire. Everyone can't be born to lead and be strong. I was born to be weak, submissive and controlled. You are normal sweetie. And good luck in your search, I know how difficult it is to find.

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  • Lynxikat
    11 years ago

    Probably not normal, but I'm pretty sure there are plenty of people out there who'd love to hire someone to clean the house and pick up the kids and not have to pay them :) But the thing that seems less normal to me isn't the fact that you want to be a domestic servant, it's the fact that you would want to be humiliated, but you're not into BDSM.

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  • hamwich
    11 years ago

    Why a 'slave'? Why not just a housekeeper? What's wrong with being treated nicely instead of having them punish you and stuff?

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  • jermath35
    11 years ago

    Would u dress sexy? I just don't understand this?

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    I at first thought this was a BDSM fantasy of yours, but it's not.
    I guess it's normal. I'm sure theres a couple combo that would love for you to work for them. I don't really think you should act on it, though.

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    • houseservant
      11 years ago

      Thanks! I hope for it to happend, too :-)

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      • Avant-Garde
        11 years ago

        You're welcome and nice username, btw:)

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