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I wish that i was a bad , charming , cool , interesting girl , instead of a good , shy , boring girl. is it normal to wish to be a bad girl?
You mean like the kind of girl who wears skirts that are higher than three inches above her knees and makes out with boys underneath the bleachers?
When i was in my early 20s, I was sexually promiscous. I am now in my very early 40s and haven't been that way in many years and though I don't miss the lack of respect, I very much miss the lack of sex. I consider myself to be a very sexual person.
I like boring girls.They are cuter,don't talk much,and they do not bother you constantly talking about stuff you do not really give a crap about.
I'm telling you, If you ain't got it in you don't you even try,it's pointless.You'd just make a fool out of yourself.I know it.I do it everyday.
I can relate. I had always been a shy, good girl...but then I got tired of people calling me a good little girl. So I started pretending to be bad in my early teens. I studied up on sex, drugs, and rap music, and started talking like I'd done it all. It backfired big time. Men much older than me started to like me, and then lure me in. I started doing things I hated( sex, cigarettes, alchohol), just to keep up the front. Now at 18 I am trying to turn around. It's hard work, and believe me, you're much better off being a good girl.
It's possible to be a bit of both. I can often be shy and I do try to be good but I don't let that be dominant in my personality. Be careful how far you push the "bad" thing, though. A little is attractive. A lot is scary.
What's funny is she said NOTHING about sex, but yes it's normal I know EXACTLY what you mean. Except I'm not good and quiet lol.
I want to be so bad , mean , step on others toes , selfish , arrogant ..yet is witty and very smart and funny and intelligent , that would make people accept my "badness " . Is it possible ?!
It's normal, but that life is not always as much fun as it seems! Good luck with your choices!
Being 'bad' is fun for a while, but it's not long lasting. That's the kind of girl that boys want to bed and girls want to hang around with for an evening or in the short term at least, but not to have a relationship with.
As you get a little older men want to marry someone who is going to be a good mother to their children and a partner they can share their life with.
Nothing wrong with a good woman being bad occasionally ;)
There are far too many "bad girls" out there. The world does not need any more. Please, stay good, shy, and boring.
Why do you call yourself boring? I'm sure that's only what you think of yourself. I like good girls that are shy.
Totally normal. I think that most people wish to be something they're not, especially when it garners more attention. I was a bad girl and as an adult I am regretful about that sort of attention I got. It wasn't good attention.
I also want to be a bad girl. But I don't know how to do that when I have the parents that I have.