Is it normal to wish i was born a man

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From the time I hit puberty I've always thought my life would be so much more fitting and better if I was born a man. I don't know why but i think and sometimes act like a guy. I also sort of dress and act like one. I'm attracted to men, but sometimes I'll be attracted to a girl too. I don't want to consider myself as bisexual. I think if I was born a male, things would make slot more sense. Is this normal?

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  • DiEthylAether
    13 years ago

    It sounds like you may be transgender. Try looking into a gender therapist who specializes in transgender people. They will prescribe you testosterone so that you will grow facial hair, etc. Also, it's not true that most people who transition go back to their birth sex. It's very rare for this to happen.

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    • spacerandy
      13 years ago

      Normal, not everyone falls under stereotypes.
      I would not jump to conclusions so fast. She needs to find out the actual cause for this. The people who go as far as hating their own bodies and wanting to mutilate/kill themselves can't be normal, there must be some underlying causes for this, and the "I'm a man/woman inside a womans/mans body" line doesn't cut it. If you're a functional, healthy human being, nothing on earth can justify your mutilation (e.g. wanting to get rid of your penis, testicles, breasts, etc). Your gender is not the real problem, it's you and how you perceive the world. Also, if transitioning, you will NEVER be 100% male/female (anatomically /physiologically), though you may start to look like one.
      There are some people with hormonal issues and genetic mutations, but that occurs more rarely imho, and wanting to change to a certain gender may be justifiable.
      This hit home and I know what I'm talking about.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I sometimes wish i was...I feel like it would be easier and i would grab life by the balls haha. but being a girl is cooler, no offence guys.
    we get to play with clothes, makeup, get away with things (usually) ...actually they do that too.. :DWERE EQUAL

    -Captain Crunchy Butt

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  • hardonlife
    12 years ago

    Ehh, well, I am a guy and I wish I was born a girl, I mean what's more fun then being pretty and pleasing your BF, which he can look after you. I just like the idea of being some man's girl.
    I'll cook, do the dishes, was and iron his clothes
    , make him sammiches and pour him his beer/rum/wine, makes snacks for him and his friends for sport match nights, give him BJ when he returns from work.

    ^_^ ~ <3

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  • TieDiedSuperstar
    13 years ago

    I feel sorry for girls. Why would anyone want to get something jabbed inside them for fun? But that doesn't answer the question.

    I think humans are basically bisexual anyways, but for varying social reasons we get crammed into a pigeonhole. It's the nature of socializing.

    Sounds like you really wish you were a guy. There's got to be a reason for that - but I don't think you're every really going to figure that out.

    Everyone is going to want you to see things their way... I just wonder what the actual reasons are for the way you're thinking.

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  • polkadots
    13 years ago

    Since it happened around the time you hit puberty it's not really that abnormal. I'm sure a few girls start thinking like that around that time, especially after you get your period. Of course the way you describe how you feel makes it sound a little more serious than maybe the way a lot of other girls feel. Then again, I can only answer from what I know so I could be wrong. Just don't do anything about it, if you're planning on doing something, before you're 100% sure that's what you want to do.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i sometimes think life would be easier if i was born a girl, but i guess that either life not easy. but the cool thing about being a girl is that the guy has approach you and not the other way around (im in no way attracted to men)

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