Is it normal to want your ex after she cheated on you?

About a year ago, my ex girlfriend cheated on me...
I loved her with all my heart, in fact, she's the only real reason I'm still alive, she taught me to love and appreciate everything, even when I was going to... Well I don't really have to explain right? Any way, when she cheated on me... I'm a forgiving person, so we stayed together for several weeks after. Then she broke up with me... I was still ok, I hurt my self a lot... But I was ok... Then... Then the confusing parts come in. He cheated on her... And she was going to kill her self... I, sort of repaid what she did for me and calmed her down, made her rationalise everything... She's still alive, they get back together... It's fine... He cheats on her again, she doesn't know, he breaks up with her and she was being psychotic, threatening to kill him. Later that year. Even though she hates him,he manages to get her to have sex with him... She now thinks she's a slut, a whore, basically she thinks she's horrible... I make her feel better again... I tell her that she's beautiful, that she's not a whore... No one can resist everything, after all, we're all human. She still doesn't have feelings for me, in fact, I think she hates me to be honest, I can see it in her eyes, the way she looks at me the way she gets angry when ever she sees me...
But... I just... For what ever reason... I love her... With all my heart... I've not been able to feel this way about anyone else. Is this normal?

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45% Normal
Based on 58 votes (26 yes)
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Comments ( 7 )
  • karmasAbich

    Cmon man.. you gotta put some sense into this one. She's playing games. First off, if someone threatens to kill themselves over a relationship that doesn't sound like a mature one, shouldn't be in your interests. Think about this one please. Also, she keeps playing games. 'I'm with you, and now I'm with him, but he doesnt want me, but he does. Help me'
    It sounds like nothing but talk, games and wost of all, drama.
    Please be rational woth yourself and realize this chick is immature.
    Sorry for being blunt, i just see so many of these kinds of posts that it makes me want to pull my hair out, at times.

    Good luck!

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    • Lynxikat

      Agreed- I think it hit the nail on this one.

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  • LOL.

    Is her name 'Jenny' and your name 'Forrest Gump'?

    Seriously man you have low self worth and this girl will never respect you until you grow a pair of balls. That's probably why she cheated on you in the first place.

    Next this girl is damaged goods. She deserved to get cheated on because she cheated on you so I'm glad to hear she got what she deserved. I'm glad she felt the pain and betrayal so now she knows what she's done to you and probably other guys.

    If you had a brain and a set of balls you'd stay away form this slut. She will use you and do this shit to you your entire life Forrest.

    Don't think she's going to wake up one day and suddenly realize you're this great guy and she's been an ungrateful immature little girl and then marry you and not cheat on you.

    Nope.
    You're a sucker that allows her to cheat on you so why would she ever stop IF she ever got back together with you?

    Do you really want to waste years of your life with some cheating worthless slut?

    Don't be such a desperate loser.

    Grow up and move on.

    RUN FORREST RUN !!!

    You're so fucking pathetic she cheats on you, you forgive her then she dumps you!

    And you're still her emotional tampon while she's trying to fuck other guys!

    OMFG!

    IS IT NORMAL THAT YOU'RE HER FUCKING DOORMAT?

    NO DUDE, IT'S NOT NORMAL.

    You don't even respect and value yourself, why should she respect you?

    So send 'Jenny' over to my place so I can fuck the hell out of her and then I'll send her back to you so you can deal with her emotional issues while you jack off alone in the corner.

    Good deal bro.

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  • This whole scenario sounds like a fucking train wreck...from every angle.

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  • Darkoil

    Man do you sound like a pussy, strap on a pair you pathetic piece of shit and stop moping around about a girl that sounds like a cheating whore, did you even punch the guy that stole your girl, no? Yeah that's because your dickless.

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  • moomus

    Have more self respect, don't waste your time on someone who didn't care enough to be faithful in the first place...

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  • carnage53

    She hates you because you have no balls, start behaving like an asshole , f. her whenever she is vulnerable, treat her like a slut, she will love you like never before. Be a scumbag bitches love scumbags... True story bro!

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