Is it normal to want vengeance for this?

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This guy likes me. I used to see him as a best friend until he fought with me for not coming over as often as he wanted. Now he is saying he still likes me but can wait for it to turn into a relationship. I never agreed to that. The only reason he would want to take it to the next level is so he can bang me. Our entire friendship was a fraud. I want to punish him. Is this feeling normal? If so, give me advice.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    11 years ago | pl

    The best revenge is walking and never thinking of him again

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago | pl

    Vengeance? While you're at it, go kick the shit out of the mailman. He just wants to stuff your box.

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    • Justsomejerk
      11 years ago

      Whoa, that guys crazy, I wouldn't fuck with him. (Although he does have a huge package)

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  • Drey57
    11 years ago

    Are you sure he just wants to get with you? I mean, yeah he might've been acting kinda weird, but you might be projecting a lot of anger onto someone who legitimately cares about you.

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  • oysterbay
    11 years ago

    He's the one suffering not you

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  • ProseAthlete
    11 years ago

    Why would you continue to have anything to do with this awful person?

    Cut him out of your life, move on and find better ways to spend your time -- namely, with people you enjoy, not people you want to punish.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Maybe I read that wrong, but aren't you reacting a little negatively? Do you know for sure he's just in it for sex? Relationships and getting a girlfriends isn't always just the intention of getting laid. Feelings could be involved. Maybe he really likes you? If you're worried about it, tell him that if you actually did start going out with him that there would be no sex involved, and see how that goes? If you're ever worried a guy is just into you for sex always ALWAYS withhold. Even if you like him. I'm not sure if it's your intuition going off, or if maybe you just thought to deeply into it? It's a bit hard to tell just form your post

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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago

    I don't understand what he did that was so terrible.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Yes it is normal you are angry about this. It sounds like the only reason he even noticed you was to get in your pants. You are correct in your conclusion. Ignore him and never talk to him again. He is using you and he is making it very obvious that is all he wants from you. Do not try to get vengeance for this. Walk away and stop talking to him. He is not in charge of you. Take charge of your own life.

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  • Roberto
    11 years ago

    Wouldn't it be easy to just tell this dude that nothing is ever going to happen between you two and if he doesn't get it then say friendship is over? Simple as fuck

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  • Coolieo
    11 years ago

    Leave him, there are much more things to life than holding on to someone that doesn't even care about you.

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    Forget it. Holding on to this will do you no good. Learn from it and make your future better.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You want vengeance for someone wanting to be in a relationship with you? Quite frankly, I can't understand why he would want to be with such a person. I know I wouldn't.

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      11 years ago

      I don't think it's a matter of just him wanting to be in a relationship with her. Assuming she did her part and made it clear that she wasn't looking for a relationship.

      I dunno about you, but I've had a few people who just couldn't take no for an answer. Would pester me constantly, 5-10 times a day, always being really touchy. Just recently I had someone repeatedly try to pull me into their lap and kiss my cheek while I tried to shove them off. x.x

      I've seen both men and women guilty of this, it seems like a lot of people are either just really bad at taking social cues or have deluded themselves into thinking they can make the other person want them. Like chicks who'll buddy up to their gay friend because "I'm so speshul, I'm gonna turn him straight!"

      It just comes across as sad and creepy.

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  • pandora000
    11 years ago

    How do you know all he wants is to "bang" you?

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago

    Eh, screw that guy.
    ..Ahaa... =)

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  • fissionmailed
    11 years ago

    This is what happens when a guy and a girl who are best friends get older, their hormones are raging and they can't help but to bang everything that's between their legs, so they try to do the closest person.. I don't think you should pursue this "vengeance" on him though. Just ignore him.

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  • disthing
    11 years ago

    People are far too quick to jump to conclusions and disparage some stranger (in this case, 'the guy').

    Yes, tell him you're not interested and don't feel comfortable maintaining a friendship. Don't be pathetic and seek revenge.

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  • Fabulous
    11 years ago

    Revengecsex is good I fuck with my wiener like a sword stabbing the damsel in no-dress

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  • Moonbow
    11 years ago

    Don't waste your time. Forget this loser.

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  • Faceless
    11 years ago

    Light his hair on fire when hes sleeping.

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