Is it normal to want to yell at strangers when they behave badly?

so i'm buying a soda at the grocery tonight and there is an unusually long line bc its so late and there's only one checker. This clearly homeless guy has got a full cart of random stuff (vodka, flowers, strange combination of other food) and he's talking to the manager, and the manager has him cut in the line.
Basically, he's got a huge cart of stuff, and most of us only have a few items. We're all really annoyed, but one by one, he's like, oh, you can go ahead of me, are you in a hurry. When it gets to me, he tells me that He was in line earlier, and had to leave the line bc someone got in a fight. doesn't really make alot of sense, but i also got the sense the guy had a mental illness.
So, he lets me in front of him, and the people behind me get upset. It's a husband and wife, that clearly have quite a bit of money, they are very well dressed. I am facing forward, and can't see anything.
But this is what I HEAR: the guy in the suit says to the homeless guy, "are you cutting in front of me?" Before the homeless guy even has a chance to respond, he goes over to him, stands really close and starts call him a piece of shit, and says other things i cant hear bc he's talking under his breath. The homeless guy starts yelling at him. "are you threatening me? I'll get security over here! Is that your wife I'm not going to say what I should right in front of your nice beautiful wife!" The guy int the suit is now really getting in the homeless guy's face, and his wife pulls him away. Right then, Security comes, and assumes the homeless guy started it, but check out his groceries in another aisle (they actually did a great job of diffusing the situation). The homeless guy wont stop yelling, and they are threatening to kick him out.
On my way out, i say to the manager, listen, that guy in the suit really did threaten that homeless guy. I heard him. He tells me not to worry, that the homeless guy is crazy (he doesnt speak english very well, the manager). As I'm walking out the door, the guy in the suit, starts telling the manager that he should make sure that "worthless F***" doesn't mess with anyone else.
I just wanted to grab this guy and scream, THE MAN IS HOMELESS. AND MENTALLY ILL. Where is your compassion? What pleasure did you get out of provoking him that way? Of course there might have been something I didnt see or hear since I was turned around, and I understand not wanting to be cut in front of, but why handle it THAT way? It made me very very sad. Is it normal for me to have felt this way?

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  • Funny. I believe that if you see someone doing something stupid, or physically threatin another person you should say something.

    My cousin is one of those people that say whatever comes to his mind. We saw a person at the mall with a huge bump on his lip. My cousin went up to him, tapped him on the shoulder and said:

    "sir, you got that herp a derp. You know, that bump a dump."

    The dude got mad as hell, but he kept walking. Lolz.

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  • SweetSherry

    You better not yell at strangers you'll probably get the ass kicking of your life

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  • abbygirl

    Yes, it is normal to want to yell at a stranger, but it is not always safe. Be careful out there!

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  • YouAndMeNotSoPretty

    That's so normal, I really hate it when people do things like that. It's just unfair and things like that can actually seriously upset people.
    There's no need in talking down to people at all.

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  • penelope13

    Yeah, thankfully there are other people who would've felt the same way as you.

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  • AngelOfDeath

    shout at people just for fun, fuck the reason for it

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  • hallo101

    what the fuck is that guys problem???? dam straight you outta done that. that arrogant son of a bitch thinks hes better than everyone in the whole dam store. ur not the only one feelin this probably everyone in line was hatin towards the dressed up idiot

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  • VxOsx

    I probably would've reacted the same way, it seems relatively normal to me.

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  • Jim_Pfoss

    If you don't like the service, leave. You can't control what other people do, but you can control what you do, especially where you spend your money.
    You must have really needed that soda bad. I would have definitely walked out before paragraph three. I've left carts full of groceries right in the check out line when I've gotten irritated enough by stupid behavior and bad service. I have to confess, it feels great.

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