Is it normal to want to watch my wife
We have been together for 3 years, it all started of one night when we was role playing and asking each other questions about fantasies, she replied hers was to have three men and me watch. Time went on, one day we was having our loft insulated, I was at work and had a message saying this guy was handsome and young, we messaged quite dirty back and forth and I eventually said to go for it but only oral sex, knowing she was flirting with this man turned me on, she said nothing happened but it definitely could of, the point is we talk about this all the time now and wish I could of watched her. My point is, is it a normal thing Within a relationship and can we go ahead and do it,if so where do we start, we are going on holiday in easter so a stranger would be ideal, does anyone else do this and where is a good place to start?