Is it normal to want to use a dildo on my boyfriend?

That is totally hot! I wish a girl would do this to me! And I would even lick and suck the dildo after she was done pegging my butt!

You must go about it slowly, start off by offering him a blow job, when you are down there sucking on his dick start stroking his balls and gently pulling on them, masturbate the shaft of his dick whilst sucking softly on his head, wet one of your fingers and slowly start rubbing it around his perineum (entrance to his arse) push it in slightly as you do this suck as hard as you possibly can on his head...he will enjoy this immensely and start shoving his arse towards your finger to get it deeper into his arse! carry on with your strategy and get your finger deeper into his arse with each suck on his head, once your whole finger is in start rotating it around pulling it out slightly and pushing it again afterwards, each time rewarding the penis with a extra hard suck, soon he will be fucking away with wild abandon at your face and clenching his sphincter on your finger until he cums in your mouth!

after this wild blow job tell him that you want to fuck him with a strap on dildo in his arse, by this time he will be more than willing to try it...if he is still not convinced tell him that you let him fuck you in the arse afterwards!

I love when a girl uses a dildo on me

If he won't let you anywhere near it, then don't go anywhere near it: that's called respect for the other person

My first time was with my Amazon Butch wife who always fantasized about bending a guy over and giving it to him in the ass. This happened in the early 80s when it was quite taboo for a woman to fuck guys in the ass. I was a good looking guy with a sexy spankable ass and as soon as we found the right dildo an 8in. long, 1 1/8 wide, she was chomping on the bit to bend me over. Insertion hurt but with lots of lube I had no choice. Screwing me doggy style until I came she continued screwing for another 15 minutes afterwards to make sure I knew who was boss. Getting it in the rear I realized my cock was useless and I just had to do as she ordered and take it. This became our normal. I actually begged for it after several erotic sessions. The feeling of prostate stimulation getting it in the ass opened me to this new pleasure. She converted me to pleasing her orally after I got it in the ass.

I think you should take the Caitlyn Gender method and acquire a giant boner cock to shove up his ass when he is least expecting it. When he begs you to stop you go deeper and tear his asshole apart like its the wall spreading between America and Mexico. Take your 7 inch boner cock and scrape it through his asshole crack as he cries until you jam your chicken cock into the back of his balls making him bust on the floor and make him eat his own cum.

I fantasize about that too but most guys feel too uncomfortable and if he doesn't like it, you should respect it.

I love getting pegged. The male gspot you were talking about is called the prostate, and the easiest way to stimulate it is through the anus and pushing against the rectum wall. (It feels like a really strong urge to pee, and with enough stimulation will get "milked" and start dripping. The orgasms are incredibly powerful)

Most men are against the idea of getting pegged, because they feel it has homosexual connotations. Nevermind the fact that people have been sticking things in their anuses for thousands of years. (point being, if it turns you gay, there would have been no future generations since all the men would be together)

Homosexuality, is the attraction, both emotionally and physically to another man. A dildo in any shape/form is not a human male. It is a penis analogue. Even looking at internet pictures of penises does not make one gay. Everyone has fantasies, and for the most part people are curious to try other things. But there is a giant stigma about things "making one gay" as if "gay" is this horrible and evil thing. Being gay involves the same feelings towards a male, that one would have for a female. This usually involves wanting to do non-sexual things, like (insert your perfect date here.)

Will taking a dildo/penis/finger/tongue/other object in the anus and rectum make someone gay. No. (that's right I said real penis. I know of many swingers who do actually like a real penis as opposed to a dildo, and use another male strictly for sex. At the end of the day they head back home with their wives. This would at most be bi, but it is non-dildo related, and even then they aren't having a normal relationship with the person who had sex with them) Will it stimulate nerve endings, possibly stimulate the prostate, feel strange, and generally cause dopamine to release? Yes. And dopamine = YAY

Should you use some form of control for him? No, that would be border rape/rape depending how forceful you get. Should you talk to him and present your facts and see if it opens his mind? Yes. Will it work? Probably not since he sounds like a jerk. But to keep things fair, if he's been in your ass, you should get to be in his.

If he said no, you know the drill. "No means no".

However, you could try seducing him into the idea. Invite a gf over for a 3 way sex thing, part way through, then have her suggest the vibrator to him.

I don't think straight men would like this.

No means no unless youre a rapist. The pope said this.

Chloroform and a strap-on is one way.

Stick it in his ass and you suck it clean

By a strapon. Once he sees you with a cock he will want you to fuck him.

sounds like you want to wear the pants in this relationship. you wont get pleasure from it and might turn him gay so not normal