Is it normal to want to try new things

basiclly im 19 and i have been in a relationship for 2years and the girl im with is like my 1st major relationship but now i feel that im missing out on what the world can offer, im a honest person never cheated or anything but i want to go on a break to see whats out there but i dont want to ruin what i have. is this normal what should i do

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Based on 96 votes (85 yes)
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  • 1marcelfilms

    Ask the girl... Maybe you can try it

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  • bhcrystal12

    You WILL ABSOLUTELY ruin what you have with your girlfriend, of 2 years really? That would be suuuuuuch a bitch move.

    Dumbest thing ever.

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  • It's normal to feel that way but it's not a good idea. Maybe you are just being selfish. You may let her go only to find that she was the one for you, then you'll regret it forever.

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  • I have the same feeling. But what do you do about it so that you can come back into the relationship when you're ready? And the idea of him or her with another person? Shit.

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  • orchidz20

    These feelings are normal, but if you really love your girlfriend, you don't have to give in to these feelings. I am 19 as well and am married. My husband was my first real and serious relationship. I often wonder what it would have been like to date, but came to realize that I would rather be with my husband than to have had the opportunity to date. You just have to think about what you want in the long run.

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  • WayOutThere

    Yes, it's perfectly normal. You're only 19, and you have the opportunity now to explore what the world has to offer. You are most definitely missing out if you haven't been with other girls. Be honest with your girlfriend, but also firm in your conviction, in what you want to do. If she cares about you, she'll understand. You don't necessarily need to break up, but you have to be willing to let her go, if that's what she wants. Trust me, you will learn a lot by being with other girls. I wish I was in your position when I was 19.

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  • Zedhunter

    Satiate your need for adventure, sexual or not, if you don't you will never be able to be happy.

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  • serafina

    i guess its kinda normal. But i dont think you should do that. How would ur girlfriend feel? I know id be devasted if my bf came up to me and told me he wanted a break because he wants to try new things. Isnt she good enough 4 u ? If u love HER and SHE makes u happy and completes ur needs, then why risk all u have, just to experience newer things.

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  • rosiekay

    Trying new things, or wanting to is pretty normal I think. A year ago I let my dog lick my puss for the first time, and I'm not sorry...incredible orgasms!!

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    • Audacia

      That is NOT normal!

      But @ Question maker yes its normal, whether its the right thing to do only you can decide, you may regret it.

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