Is it normal to want to tell all your secrets

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I would like to know if it's normal to want to tell all your secrets and taboo thoughts to your future spouse as a way of moving into the marriage knowing if they still want to be with you. At the same time is it normal to want to know every secret of theirs too?

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Based on 43 votes (35 yes)
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  • TXLSA
    13 years ago

    It all depends what your secrets are as well as your taboos. Another thing to consider is how is he about wanting to know your secrets and share his?
    But even if you tell him everything and he doesn't like it. Your relationship with him won't last which then should not be a big deal since you will not be compatible with him.

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  • chicken471bologna
    13 years ago

    I feel the same way

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  • Legion
    13 years ago

    The ultimate bond of trust. Be careful though, if things go bad, they may feel vengeful!

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    i wouldnt go so far as telling all of your secrets but if you think they are open minded enough to accept your past and still love you for who you are now then go for it. start slow though, you dont want to tell them straight out all the really dirty secrets. but its okay to keep some things to yourself too.

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