Is it normal to want to suck my boyfriends dick while he sleeps?
I've always wanted to try it. I love sucking dick. I want to do it when he plays video games too.
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I've always wanted to try it. I love sucking dick. I want to do it when he plays video games too.
Wait. Just. One. fucking. minute. Are some of you really calling this fucking rape?????!!! Seriously???!!??!!
Fuck me running full sprint. Have you people ever heard of implied consent? It can be construed by the court's to apply to sexual activity. If she is giving him surprise oral in the middle of the night, only a complete pansy libtard queer fuck face would call something like this rape. My wife did this FOR me (not TO me) a couple of times. The last time, I woke up and started laughing and told her she was sweet and how much i loved her. Jesus fucking Christ people! It's not a rape thing, but a love thing. Fuck, you people are fucking idiots. They are a couple, after all.
God fucking damn, I simply can't believe i just read these comments.
Not that there isn't a such thing as female on male rape, as I did read a very gut wrenching story about a guy who talked his gf into acting out her sexual fantasies with him... she opened up and told him that she liked bondage. He was surprised that HE was the one who would be tied. Once he was immobilised, she strapped on a painfully large dildo and began to sodomized him until and beyond the point of profuse bleeding and ignored his pleas for her to stop. That, people, was rape. A girlfriend giving you a nice surprise in the night is not.
Mind boggling isn't it? Guess they've been watching too much news of late and want to get on the, "Me Too!", bandwagon. Rape is one thing. And this isn't even in the same ballpark. Shit, it's not even the same game!
I wake my girlfriend sometimes by licking her gorgeous pussy. She loves it. In fact, she gets migraines sometimes and a good orgasm from my tongue cures them every time. Cheaper than drugs and works in minutes.
This comment makes absolutely too much sense to be made in this madhouse.
In fact, I’m surprised you have any upvotes left.
The whole consent thing is a lot more complicated and not as black and white as some would like to believe.
I had a weird experience once with one of my wives. She had just completed a major work project, and she was pissed off with me about not supporting her as much as she thought I should.
We never played dom-sub games, and she was generally pretty passive sexually. The morning after the big wind-up of the project, we were in bed and leading up to sex when she started telling me how much she was annoyed with me. Although I felt she was being very unreasonable and started to get annoyed with her, I still had an erection because of what she was doing, and she got on top of me in cowgirl position (which was pretty normal for us), still ranting at me. As we were fucking, I was thinking, "I really don't want to be doing this with her right now," but on the other hand... sex.
She got off, as she always did, but it wasn't anything spectacular, so it didn't seem like the scenario really pushed her buttons. I came too, but it was more like a, "Let's get this over and done with," thing.
Afterwards, it did feel a little rapey. I'm still not sure if I understand what was going on in her head at the time, but it did feel like I was being used.
if a woman is sleeping in my bed she has given consent to sex. I'm not a begger. No fuck no ride are the rules of the road.
It's normal. I've waken my spouse up this way and he enjoys it. Just make sure you talk to him about this to make sure he's ok with it.
I’m not sure what they are, but I suspect most are seriously misguided kids, old men acting like lesbians who fuck 20 guys at a time, and handful of users with a dozen alts. Probably one of this group runs this site as posts never make it, or comments disappear or get shadow banned.
What guy, awake, asleep, or in a damn coma would be opposed to a blowjob from his gf = none.
So much for is it normal.
Do it. Don't listen to these idiots talking about "rape". He's a guy. You're his girlfriend. Take it from me: He won't mind at all.
I speak just for myself here...
If I was in a tight relationship with someone, where there's already a lot of intimacy built up, then yeah I'd love it if I woke up to them sucking me off.
With someone I'm not close to though? Kinda weird, I wouldn't necessarily say "rape" if it was someone I was dating or had slept with prior, but still a bit like "dude wtf"
This isn't necessarily rape. I mean, if you do it and he protests, and you continue, THAT is rape. If you stop....no harm no foul. If you start and he starts moaning and encourages you to keep going, I'd say this is fine and you should continue charging on! Somehow I don't think he'd mind if you just went down on him while he is playing a video game!
let me explain.You claim it is not necessarily rape , when in fact its never rape. If you share a sex life with someone you cant retroactively require permission . sure if he wakes up and states "No " im not in the mood and she forces it with 7 billion humans you might get a jury to call it rape.
Calling that rape is utter nonsense. A little kinky sex play among partners. Nothing more and nothing less.
I mean that could be classed as rape.
Personally I'd be fine with it (I'd be fine with any kind of physical contact with a female now that I think about it) but everyone has their own preferences. Getting a blowjob during a video game would be ok with me to, and this would probably be better as he's awake this time, but it might be best to save that for sex rather than gaming time.
Though if you're playing PvP on Halo and you're losing here's a pro tip. Use the handjob maneuver to distract your opponent and use the Gravity Hammer to finish him off.
<sigh> Yeah, that would, strictly speaking, be kinda rapey.
For what it's worth, I wouldn't be at all unhappy about waking up with my penis being sucked -- assuming it was by my girlfriend/partner/spouse, of course. I wouldn't be thrilled at all if it was some weirdo who had broken into the house.
It's always been a fantasy of mine, and I'm a little disappointed that it's never happened.
Trying to sort out consent by flatly asking him if he'd be okay with you doing it might not be the best plan. He'd then be expecting it, so you'd lose some of the impact when you did it.
You could mention it to him casually. Say you read something somewhere about a woman doing it to her guy. That would give you a good idea of how he'd respond if you did it.
Assuming he is your average male, this is a nice treat and not rapey. Based on the reespones from users that claim to be male, the male species might as well be castrated at birth.
See my exchange with/to Recluded, a supposed male, who then promptly downvotes my response.
Didn't downvote you once. But if you want me to, I can.
rape:
unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim.
You can't give consent if you're asleep, can you? That's rape by definition. But you're right, most guys would be fine with it after waking up. Still isn't a good excuse to not ask for permission.
Man does not live by fact alone. That’s what you don’t seem to get. They are in a consensual sexual relationship - normal people stop asking for permission to do pleasant sexual things for each other and just do them. I feel sorry for any partner that finds themselves stuck with you.
Yes this is how the two different sexes differ. Every single hetero male would welcome an asleep bj. Not all chicks welcome sleep cumnalingus, or sex.
I have done this many times, in my experience he will just get semi hard and wake up in the first two minutes.
i take sleeping pills hoping to get used in my sleep, i sleep with doors unlocked everynight, i used my full name so people could find me
What guy doesn't want his dick sucked while he sleeps, or awake, or in a coma, on his death bed, or dead......
I think it’s pretty normal.. apparently you’re a giver and wanting to please. My girlfriend of a couple years was the first to ever do this to me about 2 months into our relationship which is still going strong to this day. I remember being in my rem of sleep when she decided to give me a bj lol, it woke me up in more ways than one and I asked her what she was doing and why.. The questioning made her feel weird as if she was doing something inappropriate and not to my liking. It was just something new; and it took a little bit of convincing her that she wasn’t weird and that it was normal.. just unexpected. i explained that I enjoyed it... in all honesty though, I wasn’t very into it. everyone is different though.. I personally would rather be fully alert during an intimate moment and not be laying there like a dead fish lol how else could you reciprocate!? I love going down on a woman anyway, so there’s that 😂
I’m honestly hard right now. I live it when my girl radomely sucks me while I’m sleeping. Best feeling ever.
i gave my wife permission to wake me by sucking on my cock if she wanted sex so she did and its always good for me.
I do it sometimes to see how far I can get, before my boyfriend wakes up.
I do it for fun, but my boyfriend encourages me to do it more often; he likes being awoken by me sucking on his c*ck.
Go for it baby. My wife a lot of times wakes me with a BJ. There is nothing better than open your eyes and see your dick disappear in your girls warn mouth. You can imagine what happens next.
The girl was just asking if it's normal for her to have these kind of desires and intentions, and all these motherfucking cucks started arguing trash about rape. Fuck these stupid conversations, just do it, any real man will love it.
He's sleeping. No, that's not normal, he won't even be aware of what's happening.