Is it normal to want to stop crushing on someone?

i am a girl, like this boy. he is not really right for me, and the circumstances make it nearly impossible for us to be together. i dont know what it is that attracts me to him, but i cant deny it. i feel a chemistry between us when i am around him. i dont know how he feels. when im not around him its hard not to text him and when i am with him we always gravitate towards eachother. he is also my boyfriends ex best friend. ex because of a wierd sexual event that happend when all three of us were drunk. is it normal to like someone but really wish you diddnt? it would be so much easier if i diddnt like him, but i do. its almost chemical. i feel so guilty.

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  • thecoldhardtruth

    I'm in the exact same situation as you.

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  • flutterhigh

    It IS chemical, quite literally, but that's beside the point. I hate to sound like a broken record, but you should try to develop some emotional independence. Your happiness shouldn't depend on someone else.

    That said, of course it's fucking normal.

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