Is it normal to want to spice up my marriage with a threesome?

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My husband and I have been married for close to 4 years now and we have an amazing sex life! No one has EVER satisfied me the way he does! But, to be honest, I've always wanted to experience being with another woman. I brought up the idea of finding a woman to have a threesome with us to my husband and he seems to really like the idea. We recently made a profile on an adult networking site to see if maybe we could find a female that lives nearby to come play with us. I'm really excited that we are taking steps towards making this fantasy a reality but I worry about whether or not the girl we choose is going to be clean. Ya know? How will we know?? I don't want to have sex with anyone we know because I don't want issues afterwards, so how can I meet a woman (stranger) and be sure that she's not dirty? This is harder than I thought! Also, is it normal for couples to experiment with things like this? Could I be making a mistake? We both really want to do this!

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  • Legion
    12 years ago

    if done right, a good threesome can make it better, providing that theres no jealousy, and if you do this regularly, it doesnt hurt to be bi.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Hooking up with someone off an adult site seems a bit creepy and dangerous.

    Threesomes with two girls and a guy usually ends up with the girls having a good time and the guy in the other room watching ESPN.

    Two guys and a girl is best but you got to get the right two guys and everybody in the right mood and everything (no competition between the guys!!!!!!)

    You're better off going to the mall.

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  • psychobabble
    13 years ago

    What are you talking about devilking?

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  • psychobabble
    13 years ago

    That's been one of my concerns

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Well one or both of you could end up regretting it totally and/or getting jealous. Even the most non jealous people have gotten jealous in threesomes

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  • psychobabble
    13 years ago

    What kind of problems? I'll take all the info I can get, good or bad! I want to make sure I don't harm my marriage.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    You won't know and honestly, threesomes will only cause problems in your relationship. Even if it seems like a good idea now, just wait and see.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      good job cock blocking a guy you dont know

      if your the girl hell no its not normal if your the guy welcome to marrage

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  • zEropoint
    13 years ago

    Well, you're not going to be able to tell whether or not she's clean just by looking, so I would highly suggest condoms and dental dams.

    You also said you were on some adult sites looking. I know there are organizations that are specific to this kind of thing and sometimes they have standards (the people have to prove they're clean to be listed on the site). Do some research and maybe you can find an organization in your area that caters to this kind of thing. They're all over the place.

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