Is it normal to want to spend the last days with soulmate?

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II want Christian opinions only, please. know this isn't exactly normal but I need a Christian viewpoint...

In 1996 a man came to my home to do some work. He was standing beside my husband and I almost fainted, I couldn't speak and if he had put out his hand I would've walked out with him. Anyway, I didn't see him again for 6 years and we talked about the connection we both felt. We know that we love each other but are not willing to hurt our children, so we are just waiting until our children grow up before we can be together :o(

We are having an emotional affair rather than physical.

We are now in our '50s but still have teenagers at home. Our morals prevent us making arrangements to meet or have an affair. He is VERY unhappy with his wife but my husband is my best friend, but not my soul mate - as this man is. I think about him every single day and see him a few times a year, when he still tells me he loves me and asks me to wait.

What I'd like to know is, do you Christians believe that I am being tempted into breaking my marriage, or is it normal to want to spend the last days of your life with your soul mate?

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  • flutterhigh
    12 years ago

    Ugh. The Management always deletes my butt jokes.

    DAMN YOOUUUU!

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  • NothingxCrazy
    12 years ago

    I may not be a Christian but I do see where your morals and religion come between your needs and wants. You want to be with this man while you need to be with your husband for various reasons.

    Want an unbiased opinion? Make yourself happy. Whether that's sticking to your beliefs and having regrets when your time to pass does come. Or going off with your soul mate and being happy with no regrets until your time to pass comes.

    I hope you make the right decision and good luck to you no matter where you decide to go.

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  • crissyabear
    12 years ago

    I think it is temptation. You have so many year with your husband. You said he is your best friend. How well do you know this man' why do you think he is your 'soul mate'? Could be you already are with your soulmate. This could be a test of the Bon with your husband. Lastly one of my favorite sayings, " The grass is always greener on the other side because it I fertilized with bullshit." Maybe you should seek some counciling with a clergy member.

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