Is it normal to want to slow down the relationship?
I'm asking this because i feel that I'm not being careful enough with us and I don't want to take things too quickly. This is my first actual relationship where I feel real love between us.. (Counting that it's only been 3 months so it's still early) I like to consider myself a long term lover.. Dating in general to me and also in my opinion.. Means that once you decided that you're in a relationship (including his/her word too), then you're "tied"; in a sense. So far.. as of TMI info.. I've reached 3rd base and I just want to slow things down cause it's like.. Okay.. I've gotten this far so early.. and it's like.. I don't wanna f*** things up and her acting distant towards me cause she isn't comfortable with herself and with me performing certain actions. I notice her body actions to my actions telling me it's okay and also her face too.
Sigh.. I'm just lost in my thinking.. where do i go with this? I figured.. I should hold off the sexual touching for another month.. You know.. slowly going for "gold" (down below) or "silver" (tops). The most I'd do now is a bodily massage. Not ignoring those areas, but just touching on if not around the area and not touching it longer than a minute or so.