Is it normal to want to sexually please my friend?

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I'm a happily married woman, I love my husband and adore him. I met my girl-friend about 3 years ago and we just clicked (she's also married). One night at a party she confessed to me that she would like to kiss me because she thinks that I'm cute and ever since then it's all I can think about. I fantasise about making out with her and pleasing her in ways that will blow her mind. Needless to say we have not yet kissed because she said that she wants to do it in private and when we are both sober so that it will be remembered. I want her so much but it's not love it's just lust, this woman is so damn hot! Is it normal to want her so much?!

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  • Legion
    12 years ago

    Talk to you husband about this fantasy. See what he says. If he likes, the idea, then you should talk it over with your friend and her husband.

    Who knows, they might like the idea. Most people who entertain the thought of a threesome are in a very good relationship. I feel that its not cheating as long as all people involved are willing and involved.

    Cheating involves someone being hurt.
    No one is hurt when you swing! (Everyone just gets fucked! lol )

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  • Vampgirl
    13 years ago

    Its not cheating for me cause me and my husband are always honest with each other I have told him about this and he is ok with it he think cause its the same sex that its not cheating and because of the fact that I told him. He says its only curiosity....I can't say the same for her though cause I don't know if she has spoken to her husband about it or ever will he is the extremely jealous type but likes to do all the things that he does not allow her to do...I feel sorry for her sometimes cause they have a lot of issues. I guess I will never make the first move though, I'm not stupid, this is my friend I do love her on a friendship level and I don't want to cause any problems between her and her husband but I do wish it could have been different...I wouldve loved to explore a little even if the only option was if our husbands wanted to watch....I don't know, maybe I'm just weird! I've always been the shy conservative type but lately I'm more open, am I crazy?

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    You're both married. Cheating is cheating even if it's with the same sex.

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    • thegift
      13 years ago

      Its not cheating if you don't feel guilty about it.

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