Is it normal to want to say "fuck this half of my family"?

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Recently my dad passed away and his last words to my family was a request to help my mom raise me and my sis... I'm 17 and in college and my sis is 18. After his request my father's half of my family "tries" to "help" my sister and I. I.e Taking all of my father's health insurance and final paycheck from work, my dad's collection of guns (which I can understand), indirectly insulting my mom/shutting her out of family events, and pretty much saying my mom's opinions don't matter when it comes to my sister and I and that only my grandparent's opinions matter. The only one who is actually bearable on my father's side is my grandpa, and he is trying to stay loyal to my grandma (the origin of all the hate, she just misses her youngest son and she put all the anger on my mom and my aunties and uncles follow her opinions). So I'll ask again, is it normal to say fuck this half of my family?

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  • q25t
    11 years ago | pl

    I too say fuck that half of your family.

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Yup. People like that suck ass

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Evil people.

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    • snowcone10567
      11 years ago

      i see ur name on almost every single comment!!!!!

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      • Terence_the_viking
        11 years ago

        Thanks for noticing i guess.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    How is incest going to solve this exactly?

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    11 years ago

    How could they just make those decisions anyway? I mean legally? I don't think your grandparents or any other relatives can decide anything for you if they don't have custody. From a legal perspective you, your sister and your mom have every right to say f**k that half of your family. Although I really hope your grandma comes to her senses.

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  • CDmale4fem
    8 years ago

    Before people start helping themselves to your dad's stuff, there should be a will somewhere. Those who helped themself may very well be in serious violation of laws that are made to protect your dads property and estste and ensure it goes to where your dads wishes stated.

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  • informedtweaker
    10 years ago

    dude im the same way just way diffrent cicumstances my dad/his side of the family disowned me because of i was emailing guys on craigslist when i was 17 they got in my computer and had been monitoring me for months then they called me out on it and they had a proablem with me experimenting with my sexuality (which is only my business) but anyways they )i say they because my grandmother rules the family with an iron fist) allowed me to move back and i was like fuck them have not spoke a word to them in a year and live 4 states away and its was the greatest choice of my life. when you just stop fucking caring its very liberating to know that your are your own person that can do/go wherever the fuck you want. thats my story hope you figure shit out man good luck.

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  • scumfuck
    11 years ago

    yes my parents divorced at an early age and i havent seen one part of the family for 10+ years they creep me out it's normal

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Sure. Sorry for the loss of your dad BTW. But yeah, why not keep you distance from the worse and stay connected to your mom and gramps.

    PS - I don't get how they had gotten so much power. Normally everything would go to your mom as immediate survivor and next of kin and to you 2. No need to explain - but that does seem odd.

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  • oicuwantit2
    11 years ago

    Its a shame, but death in families have this effect. There are the emotional and legal aspects and the human nature plays the biggest part. When it comes to greed, you should absolutely cut em loose even if it means losing a material possession, you owe them nothing (and now they know it) and a pox on their soul for not honoring a death bed request. You know who is there for you, and you'll be there for them when the time comes. I hate one side of my family with a passion but Im there for that parent. I love the other side but I know I can't trust that lot either. Loyalty is a one on one proposition. Honor your father, and the hell with the ones that don't.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Let it go. A race isn't won by looking at the affairs of those around you.

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    Do not do this, it is incest. Lol I am just kidding. I would feel the same as you and I believe a good majority of people would also.

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    That sucks :/

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