Is it normal to want to "react" against partner's cheating person?

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If you find out who your partner cheated with, what are the unwritten rules on what you are allowed to do to that person?

Does it matter if that person knew your partner was cheating? Or if they were just an innocent bystander who wanted to hook up?

Assume you and your partner stayed together.

Yes, but only if they knew and weren't an innocent bystandered. 4
No, they aren't worth your time or energy. 4
Yes, "all is fair in love and war." 3
No, responsibility for incident is shared. 0
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  • Lariii
    9 years ago

    Honesty, I'd be much more angry at the partner that cheated on you rather than the other person.

    I'd never want to ever see the person - but I wouldn't blame them when it's much more the fault of your partner. If the other person was a friend then you have much more grounds to be angry at that person

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I never understood why people would charge at someone that was an innocent bystander and didn't know your partner was in a relationship. I had to deal with that a little half a year or so ago. Girl kisses me, we do stuff. Turns out she has a boyfriend. Boyfriend acts fucked up with me. I'm like "Dude, you're coming at me for something I didn't know."

    I don't see why it's so hard to put blame where it's due.

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    • loveordumb
      9 years ago

      You don't want to blame someone you care about, so you blame the next closest target.

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        But why not put responsibility on to the person you love? That's like punching someone that's walking past you just because your friend punched you. Lol. :P

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    You're a dumbass if you stay with someone that cheated on you. Your partner should hold more responsibility for cheating since they are the one in the relationship.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    I confronted a stupid whore-bitche- cunt once, and just in case you're wondering, yes, her tears were delicious!
    :-)

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    If you are still with your 'partner', then what difference does it make who they cheated with? You are a spineless wimp and have no self respect at all.
    Leave that other person alone, they are as much the victim as you are. If you want to take your anger on the right person; take it out on your 'partner', your should be ex.

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