Is it normal to want to rape women?

I know it's wrong but I still have these fantasies of raping women and I enjoy them. I would never rape a woman and I hope she would kill me if I did, but the hunger is still there. Is this okay or is there something wrong with me because I have these feelings.

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  • PDK79

    Oddly enough, there are women who fantasize about being raped. Find one of them and you're set. I would suggest a 'safe word' or some other sign to give to keep things from getting out of hand though. Good luck

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  • jessicia16

    rape fantacy and fantacy of sex with someone underage are the two most common sexual fantacys reported by men, during harvards human behaviour studys of 2008 ... so obviously its not too abnormal as the above posts suggest.

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  • Uchiha

    It is 100% normal. that is why rape is such a common thing. I think almost every guy has fantasized about it. I'm a girl and I even fantasize about being raped. Many people do it. Don't be ashamed.

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  • onyx132

    you should try it with a friend like a play,and yes its normal but yes if i was i would and i am still trying to find him and slit his trout for makeing me suffer like that...good luck

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  • 26535

    I agree. The law. I love consensual sex. However, I would absolutely love to rape a woman. Ive dreamd of it. I don't wanna beat her up. I dont wanna hurt her physically in any way. I just wanna drag her and idk where to take it depends. Into my van as she fights back and I dominate her. If she didn't just outright beg me not to rape id be disappointed. I hope she fights back. I wanna scare the hell out of her with a knife while I tell her what I'm going to do to her and that I know she wet already just from knowing it & she likely is. I want her to ear the sound of her clother tearing as i cut her clothes off and finally slide my knife flat down her flat stomach and under her panties down to her thigh turning the knife up and slice thru her sex undrwear. Looking in her eyes I can tell she liked that as she takes in a deep breath. Oh im going to fuk her so damn good. I'd tell her how much i know she wants me inside her as I force myself between her shut legs. I hope she's dripping wet cause this is gonna hurt if she's not. She gonna get every inch of me all at once. I hope it hurts her a little at least. At this point I fully intend to hold this batch by the neck a funk her so deep n hard. I hope she cries n begs me too take my dick out of her. I'm just going to shove it in her even harder and totally degrade her till she feels like worthless whore only good for one thing. My Dick place to cum. She'll cum all over me & hate that her own body has betrayed her.
    She'll know she got her little pussy fucked when I'm done with it. That's about how I'd do it. I hope somewhere in there her legs wrap around me and she tells me how much she's always wanted this, oh I would love this to actually happen but it's just fantasy.

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  • Aries

    I often have this fantasy about raping women ... I want to dominate them , take them by my hands and have my way . I want to force pleasure on them and use my power to get have my way until I climax staring into their eyes ... as you can see the fantasy is detailed and much more so in my mind HOWEVER I wouldn't act on this in real life because it is not normal to mentally and physically abuse someone against their will even though the power and taboo of it feels exciting .. it's something best practiced by a consenting adult , this isn't the real deal 100 percent but pretty close especially if they can act really well . I think the fantasy is normal , just don't let it consume you to where you end up acting on it in a scenario say you try to have sex they say no or try to avoid it and the fantasy kicks in ... this could be a problem if the desire overcomes your morals . Accept that its just a fantasy and know the difference ... find someone who enjoys this as well .

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    • NeofelisNebulosa

      Would you actually rape a woman? Or do you mean you'd just act out a rape scene with a consenting woman?

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      • Aries

        I mention this in my comment :P I would not actually rape a woman I do not condone or morally support the abuse of another human being . I just have this as a fantasy , I would act this out with another consenting adult who share's the fantasy of being raped or who would like to act this out with me .

        definitely would not be raping anyone actually!

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        • NeofelisNebulosa

          Oh, well good then! There are plenty of women who love being dominated in bed, myself included.

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          • Aries

            :D

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  • Cheese123

    Fantasy ia different from reality. I like action movies but I would nnever shoot someone, even Hans Gruber.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    Well this could go two ways. We all have our quirks, we all have shit wrong with us. For example I have been raped and have had to deal with some very violent thoughts. (mostly gone now :D)

    It may be the fact that you are separated from the reality and simply turned on by the idea, in which case I would reccomend BDSM or roleplaying with a chick who also gets off on those kinds of things. (If you're doing this, USE A SAFEWORD. That is the biggest thing I have to point out so no one actually gets hurt)

    But if you still feel urges to honestly force yourself on another woman in a true rape scenario and find yourself inclining towards that, I would urge you to seek professional help before you are able to hurt anybody. For their sake and for yours. :(

    I realize this is an old post and you may or may not receive notification of this message but I wanted to speak my part, seeing as no one provided you with a good, in depth answer and since I've learned a lot about the psychology.

    The thing is most rapes don't occur because the guy was horny, often it out of a desire to dominate other people. The guy who raped me had an extreme alpha male complex. The abusive ex who raped me was possibly a sociopath, thus he had no understanding of other people's feelings.

    The psychology is complicated at best, which is what makes it such a difficult issue on the legal side. Having come through a good portion of my recovery I am able to (to a certain extent) see both sides of the issue.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Rape fantasies via S&M are normal and the safest way to live out your fantasy. If you really wanted to go out and rape someone, that wouldn't be normal v

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  • Bobetzza

    It's ok to fantasise about raping women, it isn't ok though to do it in real life because unlike fantasising, you could get in TROUBLE. Rape is a crime in the US and you could get arrested for it. So fantisise all you want, fine with that, as long as it stays in your fantasy and dosen't enter the real world.

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  • wanting77

    I don't fantasize about raping someone, but I do fantasize about my wife being raped by another man while I watch... I know it's weird, but very hot to me. So, I thing it is normal that we have these thoughts and are turned on by it... unless I'm a nut case too...

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    • 26535

      Me too. I kinda got to see that with mine. She was really drunk at a dance club one night and my lord can this woman dance. Everything we would when we were younger every guy in that place wanted to fuck her. Anyway she said she had to pee and I was outside the bathroom for what seemed like too long. I got so nervously excited hoping some guy had her tight little ass in there. I was shaking when I went in and I opened the stall door that looked like it was coming off the wall anytime cause there was my gorgeous wife with some guy she didn't even know with her skirt up now his twice my size dick getting rammed in her. This dude was slamming it to her. He had her back to the wall with one of her legs held up and fuck ingredients the shit out of her. She looked over at me and said please don't be mad. Our God it feels so good. That's exactly what she said. I told her I fuck ingredients love it and I hope he cuts all inside you. After those words Idk which one was fucking which. She wanted me in her mouth but we didn't have enuf room. I told him to fuck her hard as he could she likes it like that. I loved watching him cum inside her. We took him and his date home. It was so awesome watching her fuk him while she watched me fuck another girl. I didn't know my wife could be so hot. I didn't know she would love eating pussy so much. I begged her for years to do it again with two guys but she never would even with one. She only wanted girls. Yeah I know most guys would want it that way. I loved the 2 girl & me threesomes but I really wanted to s her get hammered again. If your not a jealous person try it but don't get mad when she fucks him better than she ever has u and makes noises she's never made with u and sucks him off like a porn star It's because your there. I don't regret it at all. Go for it.

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  • soccer2

    Please seek help. This could become a problem if u just let it fester in ur mind

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    • Aleks85

      It's been festering in my mind for years and it's not "a problem."

      I disagree with this person though, and I also think he's a liar. The only thing stopping the majority of men from raping women is the law. Not their conscience.

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  • ladyday

    you're fucking sick if that's what turns you on. you need HELP. I also hope that she kills you if you ever tried to rape a woman.

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  • korn3654

    Something is wrong with you. You need to seek help.

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  • Imjustthatgirl

    I think you're just into S&M

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