Is it normal to want to punch my parents in the face?

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im 21 and still live at my parents because my abusive boyfriend (yes, im gay) kicked me out of the apartment because i wouldnt partake in sex swaps. it bothered me to no extent and i couldnt take it any more. needless to say, now that i live with them, every time either one of them comes into my room to tell me they love me or care about me, i want to strike them. i swung at my dad already and he grabbed my arm and held me down and had my mom yell at me and tell me how its inappropriate to do that. but ever since thats happened, i secretly want to crush their faces and laugh about it. is this normal? i think it is, only because of the abuse im used too and the fact that im a man.

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  • karma_is_bs
    14 years ago

    I agree with mielhoney84!!Take it out on your ex dude, not your parents!They acually care about you, unlike your ex...I wish my parents would let me live with them and give a shit about me...most parents would disown their kid for being gay..maybe you should just get a punching bag

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  • mielhoney84
    14 years ago

    I totally agree with wkevine. You should be grateful to your parents that they care for you. Your frustration should be on your ex and if you want to thrash someone, it should be him. So stop everything you're doing, go see him and bash him over the head. You'll feel completely normal afterwards...

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  • ucipher8
    11 years ago

    be glad your parents are coming into your room to tell you what a disappointing fag you are. (no offense).

    Show some respect homo, they welcomed you back home from an apparently abusive relationship

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  • james3918
    13 years ago

    Parents can be really annoying. Just today I told my mom that I wanted to punch her in the face because she wouldn't stop being a nagging bitch.

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  • Astr0caster
    14 years ago

    Completely normal in fact most people admit that the people they hate most are in fact their parents

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  • wkevinc
    14 years ago

    It's normal to feel that way when you're living at home past 18. I know I did. Just be happy that you have parents accepting and loving enough to let you live with them. I had a friend who came out after high school. His church excommunicated him (Mormon) and his parents disowned him. They literally haven't spoken since and he will probably never speak to them again.

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  • coloredpencils
    14 years ago

    You're probably taking out all the emotion you have for your ex on your parents. Everyone has thoughts like that but it shouldn't be all the time. And usually if not provoked you shouldn't act on those impulses... I'm sorry slightly not normal

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  • Andyen
    12 years ago

    Its normal to want to stike out at your parents, and your boyfriend but blaming your problem on the fact that your a man is messed up. You really should go see a theropist about this. Its normal to want to strike out its not normal to actually take pleasure in stiking out, no matter how much shit you've gon through in your life.

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  • BOYracer88
    13 years ago

    just bitch slap them like most queers do

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  • hotchickie81
    14 years ago

    Your parents really care about you and want to make sure you're okay and let you know you're loved.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Your parents are being very kind to you and you are acting like an abusive cretin. Shame on you for your cowardly lashing out at people who actually love you.

    Find another way of venting your pent up hurt, anger and humiliation. You are a 21 year old man. Not a silly little boy. So be a man, and apologize to your parents immediately.

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