Is it normal to want to marry your boyfriend and then not want to?

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is it normal to one day feel like ya wanna marry your bf and the next wanna end it because you might want be single and free?

were very happy doing longdistance and hes truely amazing.

maybe im just confused because were in a long distance relationship and are 4000 miles appart. im seeing him soon thought for a month. weve been apart for 4 months now.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I kind of see how it is... I think it's bot exactly cold feet though. I feel the same kind of thing (though not when it comes to such serious decisions): I'll love my bf & want to kiss him and stuff one second and then the next I'll be revolted by the idea. Sometimes it happens minute to minute but other times one feeling lasts months...
    Be careful... Getting yourself into something while you're insecure about it might hurt your partner.

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  • pandora
    13 years ago

    I think long distance rel. do that to you

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    I wouldn't marry anyone you are "dating" that lives that far away anyways.

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime
    13 years ago

    sure love its called "cold feet". everyone goes through this.

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  • ccjigsaw
    13 years ago

    Sure. It probably depends on his actions. If he's being a dick ur thinking of freedom. If he's being a sweetheart you start thinking forever. I think you should see how well you guys get along with no distance for atleast a year before deciding to get married.

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  • roxylinds
    13 years ago

    I don't know how long you've been together, but isn't it possible you just don't know what you want? Don't think about it too much. I've done the long distance thing (together for 8 years now) and it's hard to maintain a relationship where you only see one another twice a year. Stay happy, everything else will work itself out :)

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  • lululu
    13 years ago

    if you're not secure about merrying this man, u should break up as soon as possible. you're still on time to pull back!!
    beside i think it would be better for both of u if you tried to live for a while with him just to be sure u could get on well. women often marry men they've never lived with before...then they find out that it could never work.
    you have to find the answer inside of you... ask yourself this question. does it worth?

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