Is it normal to want to leave my pregnate girlfriend?

you really typed "no homo."

I feel bad you feel that way. My boyfriend broke up w me while i was pregnant and it devasted me beyond belief. i know i was hard t handle but he wasnt the man he shoulda been either. i hope you choose to do right by the baby grit your teeth and love her despite her hormones!!

you are an asshole if you honestly want to leave her if she is PREGNANT** with your unborn child. you knocked her up, don't run away from it.

push her down a set of stairs. no baby and no child support WIN

Children are NEVER a reason to stay together. You can raise your child, split visitation and be happy apart( if thats what makes you happiest). It doesnt do your child any good to be unhappy.

I agree with the abortion too. I waited 8 years after marriage to have my son, and I went out with my husband 6 years before we got married and NOTHING put a strain on our relationship like having our son!!!!

Couples who think it will bring them together are total and utter idiots! Sleepless nights, colic, vomitting, shit, untidy toys, exhaustion, etc...

You two need to sort out your own lives with inflicting a load of problems on an innocent child.

Well the baby deserves a good home and doesnt seem like the both of u like or love eachother. Think about whats best and good for the baby before planning on keeping it. Look at what other options u have. Like. Give the baby up for adoption. U can. Pick and choose the adopted parents unlike back in the 80's where closed adoption was more popular. I was one of those babies put up for adoption. It frustrates me to see people who have kids when they arent together with the dude. The chicks. Are like this will help me feel loved and attention that i didnt get from the bio daddy and. Im sorry i hate selfishness But u admit u get sucked in she gas cheated on you. 6 times is it possible it is ures U have an unhealthy relationship and. This having a baby together is just another way for her and u to have to be in eachothers life when u dont want to be sucked in to it and well shes sucking u in boy and be wise and seriously. Give that baby a nice loving home. With both parents. Do what is best for the baby. Dont put yourself in the equation . Dont think about yourself. Babies grow up they cost money the say i hate u. And can be pills and. If u dont have shit together your kid is gonna hate u If u dont love each other. Then why. Keep a baby around Babies arent puppies. They eventually grow up. And they are alot of work. And$ 20,000 Diapers wipes formula baby food etc Adoption is an option. People

You don't need to stay with this girl, but you do need to be a man and be there for her and Your child. The biggest mistake for any parent to make is to stick together for the kids, cause the kids are the one's who will end up suffering for your unhappiness. I don't think those issues can be solved just because you are having a baby. That's a huge misconception that people have. Just look at the show teen mom, those girls tried to work it out with their boyfriends and they eventually put the babies through horrible custody battles, etc. In order to have this person and baby in your life, you yourself needs to be happy. I'm sure that you may have been afraid of loosing this girl to some extent, even though she has caused you unhappiness, however now you can move on cause you have a sure way of keeping her in your life. I think that you two can get along as friends and it may be the best thing for you. Since it is your baby (I hope it is), be the best dad and birthing partner you can be.

Although that was an asshole thing to say, you're right. It might not be his. If she's sleeping around, I would def get a paternity test just to make sure. Like you said dude, you're young. You don't want to waste your young years playing house when it wasn't even your child.

It's definitely normal you feel like that. My suggestion would be that you both make sure you want to have this baby. Raising a child takes a lot of work, and you don't want to be going back and forth and having your child watch the two of you argue stuck in the middle.

You both need to make a change and commit to each other as adults, or just break ties. If you can say all these things that bother you about her to us, what you need to do is tell her. You don't have to be harsh about it, but just keep it real. The most important thing in a relationship is trust; without this you're going nowhere.

If you don't believe in abortions then you're going to have to come to an agreement with her for the baby's sake. If you love her and you think she's the one, then you will figure out what you need to do. If you don't love her and you don't want to be with her, then the answers even simpler. In the end, you need to do what makes you happy before you can work on anything else.

Good luck!!! <3

if you're unhappy, staying with her could do more harm than good. honestly though, whatever you do (stay with her or not) try to end things on amicable terms and if that's not possible at least don't walk away from your child. i can't blame you for wanting to walk away from a relationship you're miserable in but just understand that your girlfriend and your child are two separate entities and walking leaving your girl does not mean you are also walking away from your unborn child, no matter what other people may tell you. Sometimes it is better for a child to have parents who are separated and happy than together and miserable in a hostile environment. Best of luck.

I agree 100% with tommy81....well said.

If I were I man and in your situation, I would do everything in my power to get an abortion. Then I would get out. You don't want to be tied to each other for the rest of your lives.

Thanks brotha its toughg im workin on it though...

if ur not happy leave, id just make sure its what u really want this time because if u want her back again she might not forgive u for dumpin her while she was pregnant

leave her but be good to the kid

If you're going to cheat on her than you lose the right to complain about her cheating on you too.

It doesn't matter WHY you cheated - you still did it.

Claiming that she "slapped you in the face"... so what? Every time you cheat you slap her in the face too - even if you claim it's for revenge.

You cannot fault her for doing the exact same thing you do. You're both wrong.

Considering what you've said about your relationship with your girlfriend, I think I can understand why you might consider wanting to leave your girlfriend. However, I feel like you had multiple times to break up with your girlfriend in the past, and I sort of feel like with her being pregnant, you've run out of chances to leave her.

But if you and your girlfriend are still having issues, and are still fighting, what makes you think the two of you will stop once your child is born? If the two of you still have a heavily strained relationship by the time your child is born, then I think it might be better to have joint custody of the child, since it would probably ruin the kid mentally if he had to live with parents who fought all the time.

If she's pregnate, do not leave her. Whatever it is, it sounds dangerous.

Who doesn't?

Shit happens at the worst of times. But it's all about how well you walk out of the fire.