Is it normal to want to kill an ex who cheated on you?

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I went on a date with a guy named Dalton, and on the first few dates he was really sweet and normal. But soon he broke up with me. After a week he texted me and told me he wanted to go out in private I said that was fine. The next day I saw him with a red head I was going to talk to him about on our next date, but he canceled. Soon after I got him with a black-headed girl. So I broke up with him. Is it normal to want to kill him?

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    Well, you go from someone who has been cheated on, to someone who has been cheated on, is now a murderer, has a body to dispose of, and stands a chance of being incarcerated, and never being trusted by society again.

    You've already been given the shitty end of the stick. Why make things ten times worse for yourself? Why not instead makes things better? That's more what you deserve.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Dalton....gay name.

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    • BLAh81
      11 years ago

      Idiot.

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        How does that make me an idiot, as nothing i said was incorrect. You fucking spastic.

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        • BLAh81
          11 years ago

          "as nothing i said was incorrect"

          Sure, everyone named Dalton is gay...

          Again: idiot.

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          • [Old Memory]
            11 years ago

            "everyone named Dalton is gay"

            Not gay in the literal sense, it's a gay name.

            You're the idiot that's unaware of context.

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            • BLAh81
              11 years ago

              ´it's a gay name.´

              Why?

              ´You're the idiot that's unaware of context.´

              Yes, I forgot you Americunts never say what you mean. So glad I´m DUTCH!

              Goddamn yanks.

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  • Faceless
    11 years ago

    YEAH! Kill the Dalton!

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  • BurnaBaby27
    11 years ago

    So, you go on a date with someone and all of a sudden you two are together?

    No. Calm down. He wasn't your boyfriend. He didn't like you. He moved on to find someone he did like. You shouldn't hold any malice towards him. You can go find someone that likes you as much as you like them.

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  • the_misty_haze
    11 years ago

    When my husband cheated on me I fantasized on encasing their heads in Hamburg and then wrapping it with Saran wrap until they smothered. Yes I know that's beyond crazy. But I never intended to act on it. I think its normal to think about this shit against someone who hurt you so badly as long as it stays as a fleeting imagining and doesn't become a obsession or a plan. *sigh* checks hamburger supply and cupboards for Saran wrap and sighs contently*

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  • DollyBoots
    11 years ago

    Forget that shit! Cheating motherfucker to hate your EX would mean you have feelings for that scumbag move on honey(: you can find better boys(:<

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  • pem24
    11 years ago

    Normal to feel that way. In time it will dissipate like a bubble pop.

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  • Pure_Soul
    11 years ago

    It doesn't even sound like you were in an exclusive relationship with this guy. On second thought though, he really took it too far by going out with one of those "black-heads".

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  • CheyChey
    11 years ago

    normal to have fantasies about taking their eyes out with a spoon or something the important thing is you don't do it and make sure those thoughts don't consume you because it's rather pathetic.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Yeah, a lot of people kill their exes for cheating. Unless you're willing to hire a professional, I think you're better off just leaving it be.

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  • Blue_Velvet
    11 years ago

    Dont be a loser, get yourself a new man and get over it.

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  • Loh
    11 years ago

    It's normal that you feel like killing him at first, but if it becomes an urge or an obsession you should get some help.

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