Is it normal to want to have very clingy girlfriend?

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I want to be loved. But I don't just want to be loved, I want to be a vital, central part of a girl's life. I want to be the most important, essential person to a girl. I want the girl to be my equal, but I also want her to adore me and love me more than life itself.

I want a girl who is clingy and hanging all over me 24/7. I want a girl who loves me so much that she obsesses over me all the time. I want a girl who cares about me and wants me so badly that she would stalk me.

I would return all of her love and affection and attention and treat her like the most precious and valuable person in existence.

Is it normal that I want to find a girl like that?

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Based on 110 votes (77 yes)
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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    You sound pretty clingy yourself.

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  • Devyn
    11 years ago

    Why aren't there more people like you. I'm really clingy, but I don't have someone who would appreciate that :(

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    It sounds like an attractive deal to have so much attention paid to you. Almost romantic in a way. The reality is somewhat different. Being stifled, having no freedom, dealing with an obsessive personality... not good. Really, really, really not good.

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      11 years ago

      This.

      I have dated a few of those "clingy" guys that a lot of WOMEN say that they wish they had. It was... horrible.

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  • Goomats
    11 years ago

    Yes, it is normal to want a clingy boyfriend/girlfriend...until you get one. Then it sucks and you lose respect for them.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Why are people voting this normal? I got the first "no" vote. Obsession is not love. Clingy relationships are very unhealthy and cause dependancy issues.
    Have fun finding a girl who will chop off your weiner while your sleeping because you couldnt anwser her phone call while you were at work so she thought you were cheating on her.

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    • thinkingaboutit
      11 years ago

      omg!! I don't get why people are voting mostly normal!!

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    • fullhouse
      11 years ago

      I like to be loved and I do like clingy girls. What is wrong with that? What is wrong in wanting to be the most important person to someone?
      Offcourse there are boundaries to it it's personal preference what's your limit. I for one would like to have such a girl.
      Although the stalking part is a bit too much..

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  • alison2000
    11 years ago

    It's normal, even though most of people don't like clingy girls IMO (or needy guys). It's all about what you need and want, and that's all that matters. I knew a guy that thought the ultimate girl in his life was one that stalked him all the time, taking pictures of him everywhere and always following him around. He liked it so much they dated - and eventually got married last year, haha.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    People will vote no, because it's happened to them and they didn't want it. It's not so ba though. It does sound appealing if that wer something you actually wanted. It's pretty normal, but unfortunately,these things don't happen when you want them to...

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    It's nice and it's comforting to be the centre of someone's attention because you know that the person cares about you beyond all doubt, but you can't be the centre of attention all the time. It's tiring and it's very hard to deal with in the long-term. There needs to be a happy medium between apathy and obsession in a healthy relationship. Being clingy (although not everyone will like it) is all well and good, so long as you are not obsessive.

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