Is it normal to want to have sex with your bf and his best friend?

I would say your very normal however I would caution you that very rarely does the threesome thing work out! Most of the time it causes all party's involved to be jelous then causing relationships to break apart and friendships to end. Its a fun fantacy but one better off not being entertain good luck

I feel the same way...but i dont want them to touch eachother...i just want to have both of them at the same time, i wont tell him though, i doubt he'd be ok with seeing another man on me and what if his friend made me moan louder then he does...that would crush him, and it might even break up a friendship.

on summer we tried for first time to seduce a girl at the same time, she was mad at beginning but then she just surprised us, we were the victims, if you never try you never know

I think this is very normal. It sounds very much like our situation many years ago where the three of us did everything together so sex just seemed like a natural progression. We had many threesomes, (no male touching) with our friend and still do to this day some 35 years later. There is no jealousy and he is welcome in our bed any time he wants. My wife sometimes sleeps with him alone but most often it is threesomes.

I hate to say it, but normal in which culture?

I will have to echo someone above and say it depends on the maturity of the males involved and even so...probably best with a stranger. I think its a great fantasy, and I've done it for a few of my lovers because I wanted them to go to the grave having had the best of experiences. Btw, it actually takes a much higher level of love to share a partner with other lovers. Good on ya for wanting to be open and honest about it, and ignore all the homophobes on this post...boring blokes.

And....ask yourself if you would do the same for him without feeling insecure. Sharing is a two way street.

"No offense but I find this very disturbing. If you love someone then wouldn't they be enough to satisfy you? This kind of thing is what makes me never want to fall in love. Like ever. You never know how you partner thinks. And if I love someone I wouldn't want them to be having sexual feelings about anyone else. It would make me feel like maybe I wasn't enough for them. So do I think this is normal? No. Definately not normal."

Agreed.

Now i know I'M normal.
because we are thinking the same thing.

I've always thought bromance was cute, and guys with awesome best friends was heart-warming but I've always wanted a manly-man.
so, now i have one and he's quiet. the compete opposite of me. no lie, i love him to pieces but he has this best friend that is funny and talkative and he turns me on too.

these guys are close best friends- 'spend the night all week" close, and i have never wanted to see two guys fool around more in my life.
my darkest fantasy is for them to get it on WITH ME.

so YES, you are normal,
and thank god you posted this
because now i know I AM TOO.

I learned early in my life that I could satisfy three men at once. I am married to a man that has had two buddies all his life. They do everything together and when we were dating one night after a whole lot of drinking we all made love together. The neat thing was as we were dating his two friends also found females that were not put off by making love with three men at one time. At the present each of the men has gotten each other wives pregnant.

I get the feeling that a lot of the people commenting on this are very young. It is possible to be in love and want to explore other sides of your sexuality. The hard part is being with someone who is secure and open-minded enough to not take it the wrong way. ANd the sad part is that you risk finding out that your BF is not one of those people and possibly losing his interest in a future with you depending on how immature he is. In a perfect world we would be able to share our love with eachother and see it just as that. Only you know what his level of maturity is. Be warned though that if he is young, and you do approach him with this, he may take you up on this offer and then see you as a girl him and his buddy ran a train on. My boyfriend and great love of six years only wants for me to be able to experience all life has to offer with him by my side. This scenario would be acceptable. There are men like that out there. If this is the lifestyle you want, don't limit yourself. Get out there and discover.

i think it would be really hot if my boyfriend and i had a threesome with another girl. idk if it would be weird tho, seeing him do things with her.... but all the same i have had this fantacy for years now. and he knows too! we just havnt taken it to the next step. hmm we will see.
on the other hand.. its differnt when its 2 boys n one girl. most guys are all for lesbian sex.. and not so much on the whole guy on guy thing.
maybe ask him how he feels about that in general to get an idea if you shold devuldge more? if hes cool with it who knows, maybe you could actually fullfill your fantacy.
but be careful, feelings can get hurt easily. & from all sides of the triangle.

this is normal. but it will take time. I met my boyfriend in 2014. a few days after meeting I met his best friend and was smitten. Fast forward six months into our relationship it is my boyfriends birthday party and I tell his best friend that I have feelings for him. I lean in and try to kiss him and he moves out of the way, grabbing my shoulders and tells me no. I am devastated. I come to understand it is not because I am not desireable but he does not wish to hurt his friend. The relationship continues and it remains monogamous. Then I start doing nude modeling after I graduate college. This takes off and I now have a modeling career. I become increasingly social as an entertainer figure and my life becomes filled with partying and sexuality. Instead of cheating on my boyfriend I suggest that we be open and polyamorous. This leads to me bringing home random sexy women and men and us having threesomes with them. This becomes routine and normal once we are 2 years into the relationship. When we hang out with his best friend I talk about the girls my boyfriend has fucked and the guys who have fucked me. He understands now that my boyfriend shares me with others. Finally we are nearly 3 years together and finally just last night we had our threesome. Both of them took turns fucking me and kissing me and eating me out and wow I have had many MMF threesomes (with BF and Before my BF) and this was the ultimate best threesome I have always dreamt of because I truly love both of them. But as I said it took TIME. Almost 3 years to be exact.

you are perfectly normal.... just ask my wife lol.... She was / is devious.... but not in a million years would I ever agree/accept my wife (girlfriend at the time) having sex with another guy. Well, I couldn't believe it myself but one drunken night I watched her give my best friend a blow job I almost came on the spot ... Damn it was very erotic... She teased both of us for months ... seduced my friend.... short shorts... no panties... my friend would visit... she would go in the other room, take off her bra and show off her gorgeous tits and hard nipples... I'd watch my buddy stare/drool... lol She would leave the room and he would just say holy Shit you are so lucky.... he wore nylon basketball shorts either commando or boxers... he eventually stopped trying to hide his rock hard cock.... she would just smile... I was just as hard. Things progressed to threesomes a few times a week.

My boyfriend is completely and absolutely in love with me. He always playfully suggested that he was going to fuck me in front of his friends one day. He gets off on showing me off. I thought it was kinky as hell! I'm guilty of doing sneaky sex in public. :) Then one day we were talking about it and really getting into it, next thing you know, he's on the phone with his best friend, asking him if he wanted to share me!! I got nervous! But he agreed. Now we have a threesome planned out. His best friend and I get along. Always have. I've never thought about fucking him though. And he IS a good looking guy. My boyfriend is more than satisfying enough that I dont even want to fantasize about other men. But this threesome sounds perfect. We haven't done it yet, my boyfriend can't wait to share me with his long time best friend. He told me he loves me even more now, I can't help but be completely smitten by the way he looks at me, just genuinely in love and proud of me. We have the same sex drive and love of fucking, so we both went through the "just fucking" talk, he wants me to satisfy his BFF the same way that I satisfy him. I'm anxious to do it now! And for the people who claim your man doesn't respect you or love you enough if he wants to share you, that's not true. I've never been more taken care of and loved in my entire life. It's all about what you and your man understand and want. Know that sexuality and love are beautiful things. There's always room to grow.

Hmmm.. ok lets consider an alternative, what if it was YOUR bf who was thinking this, but it was YOUR best friend and she was a female? so.. if the tables are turned and your bf says this how would you feel? If this came out of the blue?

I think it could cause problems in a relationship especially when there are good friends involved. If the boyfriend goes through with it, you never knows how he's going to fell afterward. You've also said there's a sexual interest in the friend and that could backfire. Be careful what you do because it could turn out to be a bad situation.

Women can handle sex with two guys at the same time very easily. Two men can concentrate on giving her pleasure, and she can easily satisfy them either both at the same time or one after another.

Men usually can't. They're always in competition. One guy lasts longer than the other. If there's a boyfriend he gets jealous. Sometimes it works, but often the fantasy is a disappointment. Nothing worse than getting the screwing of your life from some guy while your boyfriend watches forlornly with a limp penis.

For you you got the sex thing going on and the friendship/love with these two guys going on. You want the sex or the relationship? THe sex thing might screw up the other.

i had sex with my girlfriends best friend but my girlfriend told me to have sex with her and her friend are the same time so i got to fuck 2 sexy women at the same time my girlfriend still bring most of her friend to have sex with me i dont know why but i like it

Normal? Probably. Likely? No. Most straight guys are repulsed at the idea, assuming they are totally straight. Though they may experiment, it's probably a dirty little secret that they will take with them to the grave. Many guys, however get off on watching another man get it on with his girlfriend. That might be doable. But, watch out for jealousy. It's like three people trying to fly a two-sestet airplane. It is a'headed for a crash.

nope i wuda loved to have sex with my girlfriend and her best friend!

im sure it would probably work the other way round too!

Perfectly Normal!

I tend to agree with a few of you that having a 3sum with people you know ends the relationship. I once had a 3sum with a friend of mine and her girlfriend & I had a blast. Now this was her idea not mine but we were just kicking it & nothing serious so I said why not? Being a guy why wouldn't I want to have sex with two women. After that we stopped talking & hanging out. I think because her friend was hot & I paid more attention to her. Anyway lesson learned, its best to do it with strangers than with friends!

if you tell him, he will dump you on spot(for the guy on guy action). He may say yes for a threesome, but then be sure he is not seeing you seriously at all, he probly fcking other girls too.

I cant critisize you and say its ubnormal.IF you love your boyfriend then try to take all this thoughts out of your mind.Try not to meet that guy often.

you need to do it with a stranger , ive had a few 3sums n it gets weird when u r all friends . very awkward when u see them the next day lol

i wouldnt risk it... but if you are determined... be easy when you ask ur bf... he might think ur not attracted to him...

not normal; you obviously dont love your bf.

Well I guess that would be normal although I personally would never want to see 2 guys making out my self(and I am a girl). Never never tell your boyfriend.

I don't think it's that abnormal. I constantly fantasize about having a threesome with my boyfriend and any one of his many friends. Like you, I have a very good relationship, in all aspects. But I crave it anyway. Maybe it's just the idea of the double penetration. I also am disgusted by the idea of guy on guy action, especially involving my own boyfriend, who is extremely masculine, alpha male, rugged, etc. But I think it would be absolutely insane and, well, down right retarded to ever EVER tell your boyfriend about those feelings. Unless, of course, you don't value your relationship at all.