Is it normal to want to have sex with your best friend?

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I've identified as a lesbian (quoiromantic demisexual fits better but no one knows what that means so shorthand is easier for me) for multiple years now. However, after knowing my male best friend for many years and getting closer with him emotionally I fantasize about us having sex. We have a very close friend ship, tell each other everything, kiss, cuddle, send each other nudes, etc. Is it weird that I want to suck his dick?

Edit: I don't think about sucking just any guys dick. Just his specifically. Thinking about other men makes me really uncomfortable. Being near men in general makes me really uncomfortable. But he's different. I've never thought about a man like this except for him.

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  • Mini69
    3 years ago

    I would say you just have to accept you are not really a lesbian. You could be bisexual, I guess that depends on whether you still fancy women as well.

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  • John671671
    2 years ago

    All lesbians wanna suck a dick.

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  • darefu
    3 years ago

    Do you like looking at his nudes? Most of my friends (female) think generally the nude male body is not attractive. There are a few very physically fit exceptions.
    If you like looking at the nudes then I would agree, you at least lean towards being bi. The sucking him is also kind of a hint, however I have known a couple women that had an oral fixation that would and wanted to suck just about anything.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    3 years ago

    aint that the way attraction works for lotsa women though?

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    3 years ago

    I had a few friends in highschool that were females that I wanted to fuck. Only fucked one friend girl but she wasnt a good friend

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD
    3 years ago

    That end caught me way off guard.

    Let's talk about straight women for a second. Many of even them don't particularly enjoy sucking dick, and even most that do mostly just enjoy seeing the pleasure on their partner's face, etc. Still, there are some women who just genuinely like sucking dick the same way they like anything else, but it's a very-into-guys thing to get off on.

    I've had lesbian friends who were on the fence about being bi say they could imagine enjoying sex with some men but absolutely couldn't see themselves sucking a dick.

    So when you said you desire to do this my first thought was, "Yeah, she's extremely bi, not a little."

    Then it dawned on me that I've known a very small subset of lesbians who were very squeamish about vaginal penetration in general coming from someone else, even with toys, and especially at the thought of a man playing a role. Then I thought maybe that's why this is the first fantasy you'd have of experimenting with a man.

    Either way, I'd say wanting to suck a dick is pretty fucking high on the "not entirely lesbian" scale so you're definitely at least somewhat bi. Sexuality is usually on a spectrum anyway.

    Edit: I somehow missed the nudes part. Okay so you kiss and send each other nudes? I mean... you already don't have a platonic relationship with this guy at all. The sexual nature is already there. I say just suck his dick if it'll make you happy.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    You don't sound like a full on lesbian.

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